The family has a daughter who has just grown up, and what parents are most worried about is the problem of their daughter’s early love. Adolescent boys and girls are more ignorant about feelings, and many of them do not know how to protect themselves.
Due to the physiological differences between men and women, if you fall in love early, girls are often the ones who are more "loss". Therefore, if you have a daughter at home, parents should pay more attention after the girl enters puberty.
Ran Ran is already a junior high school student. Since she is about to take the entrance exam, her mother is particularly concerned about Ranran's academic performance.
But a message broke the originally peaceful life of Ranran's mother. This message was sent by the mother of Ranran's classmate.
This mother seemed to be "the person who came was not kind", and the first sentence was straight to the point: " Take care of your daughter well. The teacher said that my son's grades have declined recently, saying that he was in love, and told your daughter not to disturb my son."
This message was like a bolt from the blue for Ranran's mother. While surprised that her daughter was in love, Ranran's mother felt more angry.
Other people’s son’s grades have become worse, why should he blame his daughter? If it is an early love, it will not only affect one child, but both children will be affected. So, why should the boy's mother ask her for guilt with such confidence?
Ranran's mother became more and more angry the more she thought about it. She quickly replied: " Then my family has also been affected. Why do you just let me take care of my children? Why don't you care?"
After the anger disappeared, Ranran's mother suddenly realized the seriousness of the matter. This theory with the boy's mother is a little bit, but the fact that her baby daughter is in love is a big deal.
Because Ranran is now preparing for high school entrance exams junior high school third grade learning stage, junior high school third grade learning life is very tense. If her daughter is in love, it will inevitably distract her.
Furthermore, love in youth is ignorant. If the child is hurt by it, he can't think about it...
Ranran's mother becomes more and more afraid the more she thinks about it. She feels that she is really a "careless" mother and doesn't even notice that her daughter is in love.
It was still until the other party’s mother came to ask for advice, and she realized that her daughter had an early love affair. This was too late to realize.
Some parents may focus on their children's studies like Ranran's mother on weekdays and do not notice their children's emotional dynamics.
In fact, For girls’ parents, as long as they pay more attention to , they can find "clues" of their children’s early love in their children’s small objects in their lives.
If these items appear in the daughter's life, it may be because she is in love early. Parents should stop "knowing it later"
Couple red rope
If one day parents find that there is a thin red rope on their daughter's wrist, then parents should pay attention. The red rope on the wrist is a relatively "hidden" way for boys and girls to express their feelings. After all, early love is not allowed.
Generally speaking, the red ropes on this kind of wrist are paired, and a girl will carry one on her hands, and a boy will also have it on her hands.
The reason why red ropes have become the "love thing" for many early love boys and girls is that this small object is not ostentatious and low-key, and will not attract the attention of teachers and parents.
At the same time, boys and girls can also show their love through the red rope on their wrists. But parents should pay attention to that some girls may think it is fun to wear red ropes, and they are not really having a premature relationship.
If you find your own The daughter has a red rope on her hand , parents should not make a conclusion immediately and need to communicate with the child further.
Couple shoes
Shoes have become one of the ways for young couples to show their love during their school days.
Young boys and girls wearing couple shoes walking on campus is a very romantic thing in their eyes. In the eyes of young couples on campus, there is nothing unusual about couple shoes , so it is not easy for parents to notice when wearing couple shoes when they go home.
If you want to know whether your daughter has a premature relationship, parents can observe the style of their children's shoes. Generally speaking, couple shoes will be designed with " hidden secrets ". Some couple shoes will have a small love or abbreviation of the child's name.
If parents find that the style of shoes their daughter likes suddenly changes, or there are more graphics and abbreviations on their children's shoes, , then you should pay attention, your daughter may be in love.
Items for the opposite sex
I remember when my brother was in a premature relationship, a girl's headband was always hanging in the room. As a sister, I can understand the meaning at a glance. But our parents have been kept in the dark and never noticed it.
In fact, boys and girls who fall in love early, like many couples in love, likes to give their personal personal belongings to each other, as if they have always been by the other person.
Therefore, if you want to know whether your daughter is in love, parents can pay attention to the items in their children's room.
If the child’s desk suddenly has objects for boys placed at some point, then parents should pay attention.
Items of the opposite sex appear in the girl's room, and many of these items will be "tokens of love" between children. For example, a girl who has always liked pink has a small basketball model on the desk, etc.
Couple schoolbag
Schoolbag As a must-have item for students, it is also a prop for many student couples to "secretly poke" their love. If parents find that their daughters at home have received their schoolbags as gifts for classmates, they should be careful.
Generally speaking, students don’t consider their schoolbags as their choice because they are more durable and have a longer lifespan and will not be replaced frequently.
If parents find that their children have changed into new schoolbags, and the style and design of the schoolbags are a bit "unique", they should pay special attention at this time. It is very likely that the children are in love early.
If parents are more convinced of their guesses, they can also pay attention to the schoolbags of their children when picking up their children after school to see if there is a "couple model".
Conclusion
The family has a daughter who has just grown up, and it is understandable that parents are anxious and worried. If you want to know your child’s emotional status, parents can pay more attention to the small objects around your child and stop "knowing later".
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