As the saying goes, character determines destiny, and character creates the future. Everyone has different futures and their personalities have their own characteristics. Whether they are introverts or extroverts, they have their own advantages.
The influence of personality on people is subtle, because the formation of everyone's personality is caused by habits and preferences in life. Therefore, a person’s personality cannot be hidden, and the kind of personality will lead to a life.
However, parents should pay attention to the important stage of their children's character development, seize the key golden stage, and let their children develop a new personality that is positive, sunny, lively and confident.
The first stage: Establishing a personality at the age of 0-3 is the golden period of
The first three years after the baby is born, which is the key period of character development. Most of the children before the age of three are taken care of by their families and have not yet entered kindergarten. At this time, the main force in developing personality habits is parents. The family education environment is inseparable from every step of their children's growth.
From the perspective of a child, the impact of these three years of growth experience is a lifetime, and many things can affect the development of the child's personality. If you are in the past few years of birth and you receive happiness, then your personality is sunny. If you are violent, hurt, etc., you will have a great possibility of personality deviation.
html Before the age of 3, the main manifestations of personality defects that are prone to occur are divided into two categories:The first type is a "strong" baby, which shows selfishness, possessiveness, and likes to grab things. If you have no purpose in your own behavior, it is difficult to concentrate on your attention when doing things, and your body movements are not flexible; if you have no rules, you always yell. This is a typical child who does not listen to orders.
The second type is a cowardly and timid child, which is manifested as passive, timid, easy to retreat, crying and relying on adults' help. For these two types of children with "flaws" in personality, the first type of parents will choose strict discipline, superior attitude to suppress their children, or even beat and scold them to solve their children's "problems".
, and the second type of children are more popular with parents. Most parents think this is a manifestation of a "good baby", not causing trouble and obedient!
Stage 2:
3-6-year-old personality correction and filling period
A famous doctor once mentioned that personality defects that appear before the age of 3 can be corrected and cured between the ages of 3-6. Because the best time for personality debugging and healing is around 3-6 years old.
If parents have already entered kindergarten, they should know that before entering kindergarten, they should conduct a situation assessment and record of their children, including physical and mental development status, genetics and infectious diseases, which are generally understood through questionnaires and communication. The teacher has a general understanding of the child through this method. After entering the kindergarten, the teacher can also choose the right way for children of different personalities to get along with each other. He can also help the child correct his bad habits and welcome a better life by tracing the root cause.
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