newly entered kindergarten children. It is the first time that children go to kindergarten to formally integrate into the collective life. Many parents worry that their children will be excluded by other children in school. Parents and teachers should communicate more and observe her admission status. If you are isolated by other children in the kindergarten, you must distinguish what caused it to find a suitable solution. Under normal circumstances, the following types of children are easier to be excluded.
Aggressive children
Some children like to give orders and are known as the little overlord in the garden. Everything is dominated by him. When you see other children’s toys, you have to grab or bully other children so that other children are afraid of him. Such a child will automatically alienate other children. Parenting experts pointed out: for this kind of often aggressive children, his social interaction will be more or less affected. children are very agile. They will take the initiative to find people with similar personalities and gentle people to be friends. When they find that their strength cannot fight against a person, they will automatically stay away from him. Children like don’t seem to suffer on the surface, but they are actually the most ruthless by "" " . and most parents have difficulty realizing this.
Cowardly, unconfident children
Some children are shy and afraid of contact with strangers. Dare to be friends with others, which leads to refusing to go to school. There are other children who are criticized by the teacher for doing something wrong or are peeing on their pants in class for fear of being laughed at by their peers and hurting their self-esteem, thus isolating themselves. Gradually other children will alienate him. The behavior of that goes against the original intention and abandons the group is called " social withdrawal " , which will further weaken the child's language ability and anti-frustration ability.
What should I do if the child is " squeezed out by " ?
For aggressive children, most of his behavior comes from family. Parents should reflect on whether their behavior has brought adverse effects to their children. It is best not to educate their children by violent punishment and other means. They must be patient with their children and do not spoil their children. For timid and unconfident children, parents can take their children out when they have time, such as playgrounds, parks, and libraries in public places, so that children can be more exposed to the outside world and have a more cheerful personality. You can think of ways to increase the relationship between the children, such as holding a birthday party and inviting classmates to celebrate together, which will help the children better integrate into the group.
If a child in kindergarten is isolated by other children in the same class, parents should pay attention to it immediately and actively help the child to adjust and cope with it, so that the child can slowly return to the collective.
