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What should I do if my child has negative emotions? Children do not obey how to do? What should I do if the child is beaten? What should I do if my child is always unable to concentrate... I believe that the above parenting problems bother many parents. Children can bring joy and warmth to their parents, but sometimes they can be exhausting. Faced with the many problems that arise in the process of parenting, many parents are helpless or even use the wrong way to correct their children, which has a negative impact on their children's physical and mental growth. In fact, there is only one source of these confusions: parents cannot understand their children's psychology. Many treasure parents and moms habitually think from the perspective of adults, but ignore what kind of world the children feel.
's "New Education: Understanding Children's Psychology in This Way" is a parenting guide written by psychologist Mr. Ma Zhiguo specially for parents. The book is divided into six chapters, from six perspectives: children’s growth psychology, children’s communication psychology with their families, children’s mental development, children’s interpersonal psychological development, children’s psychological deviation analysis, and children’s psychological analysis of the kindergarten. Start with an in-depth analysis of all aspects of children's psychology. In this book, the author has carefully selected 90 representative real cases. In each case, the author made a professional and in-depth analysis of the children's psychology, deeply revealed the reasons behind the children's words and deeds, and then gave specific and practical suggestions to the parents to help the parents guide the children correctly. Such typical cases, professional analysis, and specific guidance are everywhere in the book. At the end of the book, the author also appended a parent-child psychological test to help parents better understand their children and think about how to read their children’s psychological secrets.
For Bao Mom and Dad, this book has three characteristics worth reading.
Professionalism
This book is not just empty talk about theory, empty set of dogma, nor is it just giving instructions for operation without giving reasons, but a close combination of theory and practice, using theory to guide practice and practice to test theory. After the case is shown, the author always uses psychological knowledge to analyze first, so as to grasp the key to the problem, and then give a solution based on the specific situation. For example, in the section "Do you understand the child's cry?", the mother of the two-month-old baby in the case always cried for unknown reasons, and was anxious about it. In this regard, the author explains from a psychological point of view that crying is a unique language of a baby, which can be used to express emotional feelings and convey various signals such as "sickness". Of course, it can also play a role in promoting growth and development. . As for why the baby is crying? According to the author, babies’ crying can be roughly divided into three types: crying caused by physical factors, crying caused by psychological factors, and crying caused by disease factors. The specific manifestations and reasons of crying caused by different reasons are given. And coping styles to help adults better understand the baby’s unique language.
Typicality
As mentioned above, the selected cases and issues involved in this book are all typical and representative. It can be said that parents have faced these problems more or less. Even if it is a few special cases, the analysis of experts still has universal significance. For example, a five-year-old child in a case likes to read, sleeps and forgets food, day and night, and does not want to do other things; there is also a "prodigy" who has extensive experience in astronomy, geography, poetry, etc. This kind of knowledge shows great interest. But even for this kind of child, there are still problems that parents cannot ignore, such as how to protect the child's eyes, how to ensure the child's normal routine, how to care for the child's talent, how to shape the child's character, and so on.
Comprehensiveness
From the laws of children’s psychological growth to possible psychological deviations, from children’s cognitive development to interpersonal communication psychology, from children’s psychology in the family environment to their psychology before entering the kindergarten, it can be said that the book covers The problem has broadly covered all aspects of young children’s growth.
In short, the issue of parenting is not difficult to say, nor is it difficult to say. After understanding the child's psychology, the child's every move can be controlled by the parent. To understand children's psychology, start with this book.
