When asked about his daughter in this interview, Luo Jin behaved very peacefully. He revealed that although he was a new father, he was not as excited as everyone thought when he held his daughter for the first time. Instead, he behaved very calmly and expressed himself. She was prepared for the birth of her daughter a long time ago, and she also said solemnly: after all, she (daughter) didn't jump out all at once.
Seeing Luo Jin’s answer, many netizens expressed their understanding and said that Luo Jin should have done all kinds of preparations before the birth of his daughter, which is worthy of study for prospective fathers.
"Pregnant in October, give birth early" is of course endless hard work as a mother-to-be, but as a man who is a father for the first time, in addition to looking forward to the birth of a child, he also feels nervous and at a loss, even not knowing Taken.
Today we will talk about what dads expecting to do during the next pregnancy.
Mental preparation
Studies have shown that due to the influence of progesterone, pregnant mothers are also prone to fluctuating moods during pregnancy, becoming anxious and irritable. Coupled with physical and physical troubles, pregnant mothers are prone to different levels of psychological problems during pregnancy and after delivery. . If
, as a father-to-be, does not give the pregnant mother tolerance and understanding, the pregnant mother’s mood will be affected, causing the pregnant mother to feel depressed and unhappy. This may affect the development of fetal organs and nervous system in the long term.
The University of Newcastle in England has conducted a follow-up survey of 17,000 couples during pregnancy. The survey showed that during pregnancy, the prospective father is often accompanied by the pregnant woman, and the development of the fetus will be more stable. Children who often interact with the baby during pregnancy will grow up. Smarter, EQ will be higher.
Therefore, fathers-to-be must be fully psychologically prepared to show more care and companionship to the pregnant mother during pregnancy, more understanding and tolerance, and no matter how busy you are every day, you should also take time to take a walk and chat with your pregnant mother to get pregnant. Mom is in a good mood. In addition, expectant mothers have family conflicts with other elders during pregnancy. Expectant fathers must first take care of the emotions of the pregnant mother and communicate with the elders afterwards. Of course, pregnant mothers can't be unreasonable just because they are pregnant.
Another reminder to the prospective fathers who smoke, the daughter-in-law is pregnant. If you can quit smoking, please stop smoking. If you really can’t quit, don’t smoke around your pregnant mother. In addition, when you’re finished smoking, don’t wait to smoke on your body. When the smell is gone, approach the pregnant mother again.
Reserve more knowledge about pregnancy and childcare
As a father-to-be, you usually have to take time to learn about motherhood and childcare, because this way you can help when the mother-to-be has a problem, and you can help you get pregnant when the child is born. Mom and elders share the troubles of parenting.
is like Luo Jin mentioned in the previous article. Why can he be calm when holding his daughter? Because he has made all kinds of adequate preparations to welcome the arrival of his daughter, instead of doing nothing during the entire pregnancy like many prospective fathers do. As a result, on the day the child was born, the nurse handed him the child, but he did not dare to pick it up. Will hug. What's more, some prospective fathers behaved like holding a "bomb" when holding a child for the first time, not knowing where to put their hands!
As a father-to-be, you must learn the following maternity and childcare knowledge:
understand the nutritional supplement table during pregnancy, learn to calculate the expected date of delivery, understand the change of fetal size each month, learn how to hold the child and various ways of holding the child, learn to prepare milk powder ( Even if you plan to breastfeed, you must learn, as it is necessary from time to time), learn to burp your baby, learn to bathe your baby, learn to change diapers for your baby, learn how to recognize the signs of childbirth, and other maternity and parenting knowledge.
These seemingly simple parenting and maternity knowledge can play a big role in future life.
accompany the pregnant mother to the prenatal check-up
Many people think it is unnecessary to accompany the pregnant mother to the prenatal check-up. They think that even if they go there, they can do nothing, but in fact, it is necessary to accompany the pregnant mother to the prenatal check-up.
maternity examination can not only detect the developmental status of the baby at all stages, but also detect the physical changes of the pregnant mother at all stages, and can timely detect some pregnancy complications of the pregnant mother, such as gestational hypertension, gestational diabetes, anemia and so on.
has done the inspection networkEveryone knows that in the process of maternity check-ups, it is usually necessary to queue for a long time. This is a big test for pregnant mothers who are heavy. The expectant dad accompanies the pregnant mother to the check-up not only to help line up and get orders. ...Sharing the physical work, you can also be familiar with the pregnant mother's situation throughout the pregnancy, understand the changes of the pregnant mother and the baby, invisibly enhance the sense of responsibility of the prospective father.
is the longest love confession, so the father-to-be must arrange a time to accompany the pregnant mother in advance if possible.
accompany pregnant mothers to do prenatal education
Research shows that babies who have received prenatal education are more sensitive to music, learn pronunciation earlier, have healthier mental behaviors, develop fine hand movements, and have better athletic skills Stronger, in addition, babies who have received prenatal education do not like to cry compared to babies who have not received prenatal education.
Some prospective fathers think that prenatal education is a matter for pregnant mothers, and there is no need for them to participate. In fact, this idea is wrong. According to a research report,
pointed out that the fetus is more sensitive to boys' low-frequency sounds than girls' high-frequency sounds.
In addition, father-to-be participation in fetal church makes mothers-to-be feel loved and cared. The care and comfort of father-to-be can stabilize mother-to-be’s mood, relax mother-to-be to spend the pregnancy period, and also benefit the healthy growth of the fetus.
For prospective fathers, in the first 4 months of pregnancy, in addition to doing a good job of antenatal care, they must also start learning various prenatal education methods, so that from the 4th month onwards, they can accompany the pregnant mother to do prenatal education for the baby. Z1z
writes at the end:
is not only the responsibility of women to give birth to the next generation, but the common responsibility of husband and wife, so in addition to expectation and panic, as a father-to-be, there are actually many things to do, for the health of the baby and for the mother-to-be During the ten-month pregnancy, in order to make oneself greet the baby without surprises and excitement, the father-to-be must do the above work well.
