text/Ergua Dad
Second child is annoyed, second child is happy.
My two boys are 7 years old, and the second one is 1 year old.
Although I often complain about the troubles of having a second child, I advise others to be cautious. But to be fair, worries are doubled, and happiness is actually doubled, it depends on what you think.
is like half a cup of water. Optimistic people are happy, and there is still half a cup to drink. Pessimistic people are sad, and only half a cup is left.
After the second child was born, my wife and I were often very annoyed and had a big temper. I hugged my baby and I had , periarthritis of shoulder , my wife's weight gained 15 kilograms, and the eldest brother was very furious and learned pinyin.
But more often, I am still happier, and there will be a faint sense of comfort, joy, and satisfaction that will slide across my heart.
What does this feel like? My mentality changed drastically.
It’s like in the middle of the night, after working overtime, you slowly soak in a bathtub filled with hot water, and you will be exhausted and breathe a long sigh of relief.
However, you will think, this is the case in your life. It is enough to have two children for decades, healthy and happy.
As for fame, fortune, love, hate, and love, forget it.
We often have a very wonderful experience.
hugged and coaxed the dick, feeling dazed that yesterday was reappearing, as if she was holding the eldest six years ago.
My wife and I can’t remember what we look like when we were old.
Now when I see the second child, I feel that it is the same mold, and then I feel that the difference is too big and I don’t look like it.
We often make mistakes and call my younger brother wrongly as my older brother.
Send photos of the two brothers when they were young to their grandmother and mother-in-law, and they can't tell who is who.
This year, it seems that the bitterness I have suffered and the tears that I laughed out have been restored.
A more funny scene is that now I am walking around the community with my second child in my arms. Anyone who hears that my family has a second child and has two boys, everyone has a meaningful and sympathetic smile.
The implication is: Two kids, you will suffer from your hardship.
