On July 10th, an 11-year-old girl from Xiangyang, Hubei Province was going to attend a class reunion. She chose a short miniskirt and prepared to dress herself beautifully. Dad is a little unhappy. How can a girl be so small in such a short skirt? He took the skirt and said to his daughter: "This skirt is too short to be worn by a girl your age. If you wear it later, I will never say you."
The little girl stood aside and did not make a sound, perhaps refuting Dad in her heart. Dad saw her look like this and continued: "If you insist on wearing it, then I will wear this skirt to pick you up, do you think it looks good." While talking, he put this little skirt on himself. Fortunately, this father is also in a very good figure, he really put his daughter's little skirt on his lap and lifted it up. The mother who was filming the video hurriedly asked her daughter: "Does your father look good in this dress."
The daughter who has been silently beside her sees her father wearing a skirt and shook her quickly She shook her head and said: "It's not good-looking." Seeing the goal was achieved, Dad pursued the victory: "You still wear it." The little girl replied decisively: "No." Finally, she picked a set of more casual clothes to participate in. Classmates reunion.
The little girl looks well-behaved and obedient. It is not naughty or self-willed. It can be seen that the parents are also stricter. According to my mother, my father used to be a soldier, and the girls are young, so they have strict management in this area.
Dad said that he usually likes to scan Weibo on the Internet. He felt very good when he saw foreigners educate children in this way, so he borrowed it. My father said that he usually educates his daughter by preaching, and the girl is weak and crying. The effect of education in this way is not bad.
Some netizens questioned, since children are not allowed to wear it, why buy it? Netizens who also expressed their understanding for the girl’s parents thought that it was probably bought when the child was younger, and now there are too many bad people, the parents will inevitably worry.
It is natural for parents to worry about the safety of their children. As the age grows, the dress of girls is also a problem for parents. In addition to this method, it is more important for children to understand what is beautiful, what clothes are beautiful for what age, and what clothes are suitable for what occasions. Only when they understand these can they avoid future troubles.
1. Cultivate children's aesthetic ability from an early age, so that children have the ability to distinguish beauty. The age of 2-5 is a sensitive period for children's aesthetics. He will use instinct to try to express his understanding and perception of beauty, such as learning how to dress as an adult and prefer other people's things. During this period, parents can take their children to the outside world to experience the beauty of nature and architecture. They can understand the beauty of poetry and painting through reading, so that children can understand that beauty is multidimensional and establish a correct aesthetic view.
2. Let children understand the difference between the beauty of different age groups, and how this beauty is reflected in clothing. The beauty of a child is mainly reflected in youthfulness and vigor, even a simple T-shirt can make people feel the beauty of youth, which is displayed from the inside out, and adult, fancy dress or short, Eye-catching clothing such as thin, transparent, and revealing will only conceal the inner breath, not truly lasting beauty. Take two comparative photos for the child to observe carefully and analyze from the intuitive sense, what kind of dress makes people more willing to be close and more youthful and lively.
3. Beauty is not depression, it is an appropriate release. The home is a leisure place. Some thoughtful clothes can be worn occasionally at home without any harm, but when going out, they must be clean and tidy, dressed simply and generously, showing the beauty of dignity. Beauty comes from temperament, and the most beautiful clothes are in line with their temperament.
Clothing is aesthetic. Children have the correct aesthetics since childhood, and good aesthetics will sublime their temperament and become their own intangible wealth.
