Rural grandma has a "strange trick" to take care of her children. She plays a game with her children every day. The children perform in awesome after going to school.
In recent years, with the implementation of the national double reduction policy, many parents believe that this policy is to give their children a happy and worry-free childhood in the process of educating their children. Therefore, they will not teach their children too much knowledge before their children go to school. Many parents even choose to let their children "0 basics" enroll, but some other parents have become more anxious. I was worried and was afraid that the child would lose at the starting line, so they paid great attention to letting the child learn knowledge in advance
My college classmate Xiao Chen is a typical example. According to Xiao Chen, due to physical reasons, although she did not go to work at first after giving birth, the child was still left to her grandmother for most of the time. So when the child was about one and a half years old, although Xiao Chen recovered a lot, he did not ask to take care of the child himself. Instead, he chose to go to work directly. So her child was raised by her grandmother and was not very close to Xiao Chen since she was a child. Even at night, I have to sleep with my grandmother rather than my parents.
For Xiao Chen and his wife, it is natural that they are happy to have a grandmother to take care of their children. Therefore, they not only are they busy at work and have no time to see their children during the day, but they actually rarely accompany their children at night. However, as the children grow up, Xiao Chen is a little dissatisfied with their grandmother to take care of their children. Not as good as the retired elderly who are educated in other people's families, Xiao Chen's grandmother is a real "illiterate" in today's era. She has only graduated from elementary school and has lived in the countryside all her life and has no knowledge at all. So she was very worried that her child would delay his studies under the care of her grandmother and would lose at the starting line.
So after thinking about it, she quit her job and chose to open a dessert shop near her home. The idea of opening a dessert shop was not actually a whim. But since she was a child, Xiao Chen has always wanted to have her own dessert shop. The reason why she chose to open it now is to increase family income, and on the other hand, it is to take care of her children by herself. Fortunately, even her parents opposed her decision, her husband and mother-in-law supported her very much. In particular, the mother-in-law also took out her pension capital and asked her to use it through. This moved Xiao Chen very much. Although I was dissatisfied with my mother-in-law raising her children, I didn’t say anything about the idea of raising her children by myself.
Fortunately, her career has just started and she is a little busy. She cannot take care of her children immediately, and she is even busier than working. Fortunately, her mother-in-law is considerate and often takes her children to dessert shops to find Xiao Chen, so gradually Xiao Chen and her children become much more familiar. In this way, the child was in the blink of an eye and reached the age of kindergarten.
What Xiao Chen didn't expect was that not long after going to school, the child's teacher called her to the office. She thought the child was not performing well, and the teacher wanted to criticize her. After all, when she saw her grandmother taking care of her children, she really didn't teach the child anything. However, when the teacher opened her mouth, Xiao Chen realized that the teacher actually wanted her to share parenting methods at the next parent meeting because the child performed so well. According to the child's teacher, the child not only responded quickly in the class, but also spoke in a good manner at a young age. He opened his mouth and was really a little genius.
After listening to the teacher's words, Xiao Chen was really overjoyed, but when it comes to parenting methods, she really knew nothing. After all, the life she has taken care of since childhood has grown up is less than half a year. Thinking about it carefully, the reason why the child can become so excellent is ultimately due to the child's grandmother. So she had to tell the teacher that she would sort it out when she got home and would share it with everyone next parent meeting.
That day, Xiao Chen entered the door and went straight to her mother-in-law's bedroom. He held her hand and asked her, "Mom, tell me how you taught our children and what parenting methods you used. Today, the teacher called me over and praised the children. He also asked me to share the parenting methods next time. Tell me, what tricks did you use?"
Unfortunately, Xiao Chen said a lot of things with the cannon, but grandma told Xiao Chen in confusion, "What educational methods do I have, an uneducated old woman? I don't know anything. Let the children do whatever they like. Is that okay?" When Xiao Chen heard this, he felt disappointed. It seemed that grandma really had no parenting methods, or was the child himself a genius? Xiao Chen thought about it and still felt that the child was very ordinary and showed no sign of genius. So what was going on?
After this question was in mind, Xiao Chen became very concerned about grandma raising her baby. Once upon a night, as long as the child stuck to her grandma, she would be happy to go back to the room to lie down. She never cared about what grandma and the child did. But she paid special attention this day and found that grandma and the child were actually hiding in the room to "play cards". Is it all the secret?
Later, Xiao Chen asked his grandma specifically for the cards to see, but found that it was really because of this set of cards that made the child so excellent. It turns out that this is not an ordinary playing card at all, but a set of "Idiom Dragon Cards", which not only contain idioms, new characters, pinyin and annotations, but also pinyin and annotations. It is also because of this that Xiao Chen's child is said to have learned more than 1,000 new characters and hundreds of idioms after playing for about 30 days, so he can perform so well after going to school.
And than letting children memorize early education and enlightenment, this way of using cards and games to help children accumulate literacy and idioms is really more interesting and has better results. Especially for children aged 3-7 who are in the sensitive period for literacy, this kind of educational and fun-friendly method is 100 times better than the traditional literacy method.
The best thing is that in the process of playing the idiom card game, children's concentration, memory, hand, eye and brain coordination ability, logical thinking, thinking ability, reaction speed, etc. will be trained and improved. In this way, after the children officially learn knowledge after going to school, they will have more advantages than ordinary children.
After Xiao Chen learned about this parenting method of grandma, he generously shared it with the parents of other classmates in the child's class at the parent meeting. As a result, after everyone went home to buy it for the child, they all had a good feedback after a while, and they all praised Xiao Chen's child's grandma really had a way to take care of the child, and the teacher said that she didn't expect it. It has really received high praise and recognition.
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