In fact, every child’s natural development is caused by our parents. From an early age, we must let them know that there are right or wrong in the world. The method is actually very important. First of all, you must understand your child’s personality and implement measures according to the child’s personality. What we must pay attention to is the success or failure of the child’s life and death in the world when he grows up. This is the general direction of our early education of children. Some mistakes will be made by children. I almost don’t care about those problems, because the child is young, and these problems will automatically be eliminated with age in the past ten years. Therefore, we must understand the child’s personality from an early age.
Like my child when I was three years old, I knew that this child was an introverted child. He was very smart in his heart, but he was not good at expressing himself. When a stranger comes to his house, he doesn't speak. He stammers himself by asking him to sing familiar songs. I can see that he is not confident and not good at speaking. I have encouraged to expand my physical fitness and apply for a speech class to increase his self-confidence, physical fitness, and language expression ability. Because I know that the defects in my child’s personality will definitely be the shortcomings of his career in the next ten or twenty years, I will discover in advance and prevent precise education in a timely manner. This is what every parent should pay attention to, and we must also have a backward thinking. Because we also have personality flaws. It is precisely because our family has not helped us make up for it since childhood that it is difficult for us to achieve success in our careers. This has nothing to do with the flaws. So I think some small problems are all small problems not eating, not sleeping, and being naughty. What everyone should pay attention to is the current problems of their own abilities.
The bad situation is that many parents don’t know how to be human, but they are very happy to evaluate others’ behavior, especially for their children.
What is slightly better is that parents are good at doing things, but they lack communication methods and skills. At this time, parents and children will have a lot of negative emotions when communicating, but children use their parents as models, so the difference will not be much worse.
The best situation is that parents often reflect on themselves and understand the importance of setting an example. In this case, the negative impact of communication is very small, and it is on the road of getting better and better communication.
