Several friends and classmates of the same age competed to have a second child and had both children. I really admire their courage and courage. Our son has grown up, but as for his daughter, it is just an unthinkable wish. So every time I see a gentle, cute, cute little girl like a flower bud, my wife and I can't help but stop, look at her with drowsy eyes for a while, and love, envy, and more of a fascination: how happy it would be if she had such a little daughter!
We have dreamed about the appearance of my little daughter countless times: like my white skin, big eyes, a slim figure that cannot be fat, like my wife's beautiful face, tall and smart mind, and her personality is best to follow me, gentle, generous and steady, but be more lively, bold and extroverted.
All kinds of advantages have been conceived, "This is our little Lulu!" The wife waved her hand, as if she was planning a general. Everything was arranged. In the blink of an eye, a little daughter who was as we expected would stand in front of us with a clever smile, and was about to get into her arms to act coquettishly.
In fact, we once had a little daughter. My wife was pregnant for more than three months and went to the maternal and child health hospital for color ultrasound. A female colleague in the factory office was also pregnant. She did not register, so she followed her wife into the color ultrasound room. When my wife was shooting a lottery, she stood beside the doctor and watched, and then told us that her wife was pregnant with her daughter!
The pink clothes and shoes of the son after he was born,
Since we knew it was a daughter, we immediately went to the supermarket to buy clothes. I heard that all the little princesses like pink, so we bought pink flowered jackets, flower shirts, flower shoes, and flower hats. My wife also wanted to buy a flower skirt, but I laughed at her. The little princess was not born yet. When will she wear a flower skirt?
Go and buy pictures that my little daughter likes to read and prepare to post them on the wall. Buy prenatal education music that my little daughter likes to listen to, buy toys and dolls, etc. The two of them are really busy!
Back to the factory, my wife urged me to name it. I have always liked the poem " Qu Yuan : "The road is long and arduous, I will search up and down!" So, I confirmed that my name is Luo Yuanlu and my nickname is Yaoyao. My wife caressed her stomach every day and shouted happily, "Yaoyao, our little princess! Our beautiful and cute little princess!"
The flowery cotton jacket worn by her son
about two months later (early November 1999), my wife pulled me to discuss and said that even if she knew it was a daughter, she should have the same son's name at the same time, so that it would be fair. I think so, so I quickly found a dictionary and a dictionary, carefully pondered one by one, scratching my head, but I couldn't find a name that I was very satisfied with. I took advantage of the opportunity to go to the bookstore to read "Chu Ci" and " Book of Songs ", but I didn't get any inspiration. My wife comforted me and said, "No, no, baby is still born early!"
I remember very clearly. On November 21, 1999, I went to Shenzhen to take the English grade test. At the Longgang Overpass platform, the newspaper buyer held " Reference News " and shouted loudly: "Good news, good news, Shenzhou 1 was successfully launched at 6:30 yesterday!"
Shenzhou 1 launched in the air
I only felt a flash of inspiration in my mind, and a very suitable name leaped out: "Yuanxiang! My son is called Luo Yuanxiang!" I was very excited, so I quickly bought a copy of "Reference News". After reading it carefully, I carefully folded it and saved it. (It should still be stuck in "Baby Diary")
The wife must have a very suitable name, which meets our expectations. The two identified their son's nickname as "Yaoyao" and their daughter's nickname is "Lulu". In this way, they would not feel favored by one or the other.
The night when the child was born, I was looking at the goods in the workshop and received a paging from my younger sister saying that my wife was going to give birth and had already gone to the hospital. In my heart, I kept reminding Xiao Lulu who was about to be born, "Little daughter, don't bother your mother!"
In the early morning, the younger sister came to send a message to tell her that she was the son, that was Yaoyao, not Lulu, and our little daughter's wish was officially failed.(Due to misleading from others, he wore all his little daughter's clothes and pants during his infancy.)
Soon after, our household registration was moved to Longgang District . At that time, family planning was very strict, and he would have to be fined nearly 300,000 yuan for more than one childbirth, so even if the parents of both parties wanted us to have another one, they would not have financial support.
When the second child is opened, the son is already old. Considering our body and energy, we are concerned about the hard work and labor when raising our son (I have another one, everything starts again, when will it end?) With the age gap between my son and his brother (sister), we have no courage to think about it.
(The above pictures are from the Internet)
