Liang Fengyi said, "There are many things that are not our turn to think too much. Even if we rack our brains, we can't think of the truth and so it turns out that everything goes with the flow." In the family, every child is the only one in the hearts of parents; we can't think of the truth and why the child has psychological problems. On the 27th day of copying and checking in, we continued to read the fifth chapter of Mr. Winnie's "Psychological Magic of Adapting to the Psychological Skills, Children Better Cooperating, and Growing Happy with Children". I learned that family education may encounter some psychological problems in , such as mild cases such as fear, hyperactivity, and tics, and severe cases such as obsessive-compulsive disorder and depression . If we can prevent, identify and respond reasonably in a timely manner, we will help us overcome difficulties smoothly.
Psychological problems I knew
Children have psychological problems such as timidity and fear. They can use the method of system desensitization to divide the goal into many small steps, so that every small step can be easily completed by the child, and then move to the next step
My daughter began to feel a little timid and was not willing to date children. I thought of a way, which was to play games with the children with her. There is a popular game among children called "Rat Stealing Oil", but no one wants to be a cat. At this time, I can participate. When the children see an adult who is willing to be a cat, they will naturally welcome them. With me here, my daughter was very happy to be a mouse with them, laughing loudly, and I also rejuvenated and played many kinds of children's games. In this way, my daughter gradually fell in love with playing games with children, and experienced the fun of playing together, and her personality was more generous than before!
After making progress, I created some opportunities for my daughter to interact outside of games, such as visiting each other at classmates' homes and friends' homes, and asking children to play together. Gradually, she gradually learned to like these gameplay, and more and more friends were.
For example, when children are in physical education class, they are always inexplicably afraid of vaulting horse in gymnastics class. Many children run to the horse and dare not jump over. At this time, we can use the system desensitization method. We can first practice jumping goats, first make the springboard closer, and then move the springboard farther until the distance reaches the standard, so that we can easily deal with the goats; then practice walking on the horizontal horse, and the distance of the springboard will gradually increase until we can relax and jump over at a standard distance; finally practice riding horses, use the same method, and finally jump at a long distance, and we are not afraid.
moves towards the goal step by step, and the child's fear gradually fades.
What should I do if a child stutters?
Some children do not listen carefully in class, chase and fight after class, have poor control ability, help children overcome the problem of hyperactivity, and need to communicate effectively to cultivate awareness of rules
What is ADHD? It refers to normal intelligence or basically normal, but defects in learning behavior and emotions, which are mainly manifested as inattention, short attention span, excessive activities, easy to get along with others, and difficult to get along with others at home and school. In daily life, parents and teachers often feel helpless.
In fact, many children who show hyperactivity are not serious symptoms. It’s just that the child doesn’t know how to abide by the rules, is not afraid of the teacher, is not interested in learning and class, and has not yet cultivated his habits.
Through the game between teachers and students, it is helpful for preventing hyperactivity. You can start playing it from the age of three or four.
Some time ago, when my five-year-old daughter was in kindergarten, she always moved around on the stool, touching her classmates with her hands, and touching the next tables and stools next to her. The discipline in class was not good.
So I often play teachers and students games with my children, which can help children understand the rules of class. The specific approach is to let the child play the role of a teacher, and I and Animal Toys play the role of a student. In class, I sometimes touch the ears of the rabbit on the left, whisper to it, and sometimes pat the back of the turtle on the right.At first, my daughter just called my name a little sternly, and then asked me to get up and tell the story. After the story was told, I listened to her for a while, and then pretended to be unable to sit still. My daughter called me in a stern tone, and finally hugged me and said, "Can Mom listen to me? I'm so angry."
Seeing that the time had come, I said, "I'm sad when I see that my classmates are talking and don't listen to the teacher's lecture?" My daughter nodded. "So from today on, let's be a different self and believe in ourselves?" I said in my daughter's eyes. My daughter nodded vigorously to respond to me. In the later class, I really saw a different child, the daughter who was touching in class disappeared.
What should I do if my child is depressed?
Faced with children with tics, it is to adapt to the children's psychology, change the education methods, change the children's sensitive personality, and let the children relax and happy
The essence of the symptoms of tics is a habitual catharsis of inner tension and anxiety, so we need to change our educational methods and not suppress our children; we also need to change our children's overly pursuing perfection and competitive personality to reduce children's own tension and anxiety.
People often say that mothers are the greatest in the world. They can sacrifice everything for their children, as long as they are healthy and happy. But why do we still get tics if we love our children like this? Now I understand that although we love our children, the way we love is wrong.
The child has been timid since childhood, has a bad temper, and even shouts loudly. For a period of time, parents did not agree on their opinions on educating their children, and coupled with the dissatisfaction at work and trivial matters in life, they often caused anger on their children. The child was tortured, and she was at a loss and was anxious. Later, she was diagnosed with tics.
Faced with this situation, I kept reflecting, withstood the pressure of the whole family, and changed myself according to Teacher Winnie's method, and used psychological methods to help my children. Patiently tutoring academically and carefully helping in life, and gradually your child’s tics will be cured.
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