It is normal for couples to have conflicts, but when there are conflicts between husband and wife, if they vent their emotions in front of their children, it will have a very bad impact on the children's psychology. If you had a dispute with your partner, would you choose to vent your emotions in front of your children?
There is an example of a woman who left her child at home to go shopping with her friends. When her husband came home from work and found that the child was alone at home, he picked up the child and went out to look for her. When he found her, the husband could no longer bear it, and in front of her She threw her phone in front of the child.
She has been very playful since she was a child. Every time her parents asked her to do homework, she was always absent-minded, so that her grades have always been very poor.
After graduating but not going to college, she wanted to go to the city to find a job. When she came to the city, she found that finding a job was not as easy as she thought.
Unable to find a job, she saw that the money she brought was not much. In order to maintain her livelihood, she went to work in a factory. After working for a period of time, she felt that working was very tiring, so she wanted to find a partner with good conditions to get married. To get rid of the working life.
When she had this idea, she called her parents home for help. When her parents saw that she was almost of marriageable age, they arranged for her to go on a blind date.
During the blind date, her husband fell in love with her at first sight. When she saw that her husband's family conditions were good, he had a house and a car, she felt very moved, and soon she married her husband.
After she got married to her husband, she gave birth to a daughter for her husband. When her husband saw that there was a child at home, someone had to take care of it, so he asked her to stay at home to take care of the child while he worked to earn money.
Since taking care of her daughter at home, she has not tried to go shopping with her friends for a long time. When she saw that her daughter could play independently at home, she planned to leave her at home while she went shopping with her friends.
Once she made an appointment with a good friend. When the friend got off work, she put the child's favorite toy next to the child and told the child: Mom has to go out for something, you play well at home, and go to bed when you are tired.
After saying that, she changed her clothes and went out. When her husband came back from get off work and saw that the child was alone at home, he went to find her with the child in his arms.
When her husband found her, he found her using her mobile phone to contact a friend on the street and said: Are you here? Come quickly and go shopping with me.
The husband felt very angry when he heard what she said. Then he snatched the mobile phone from her hand in front of the children and threw her mobile phone to the ground.
saw that her husband dared to throw her cell phone, so she vented her dissatisfaction with her husband on the spot. The two argued endlessly in front of their children, each venting their dissatisfaction with the marriage.
As parents of children, no matter how dissatisfied we are with our partners, we cannot vent our emotions in front of our children. This approach is very immature.
It is indeed very tiring for a person to take care of a child alone for a long time. It is understandable that she wants to relax, but she cannot choose to leave the child alone at home. This is very irresponsible behavior.
If an accident occurs while the child is alone at home, it will be too late for her to regret it. In fact, she can choose to discuss with her husband and let him take care of the child on his days off, so that she can go shopping with friends more peacefully.
believes that after this incident, her husband can learn to control his emotions. When conflicts arise next time, he can stay rational and solve the problem through communication, so as not to hurt the relationship between the husband and wife. At the same time, it can also allow children to grow up in a more harmonious family environment.
