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At the time of puberty, in addition to the obvious changes in the physiology, the psychology will also undergo some subtle changes, and the "weariness" is the most critical of them A bit of .
For most children, learning weariness is like a glimpse, as long as parents guide in time, they can restore their interest in learning, but for some children, as long as has "study weariness", it is like a maggot attached to the bone Generally lingering.
The mother made a surprising move to bring her child to experience life, but regretted it a month later.
She is tired of learning with her child. Every parent has a different way to deal with it. Let the children know that reading is good, but they regret it after a month.
Ms. Chen's child was complained by the teacher numerous times in the last semester, and she was already disgusted with school. Ms. Chen took advantage of her child's summer vacation, and brought her child to the construction site where she worked as a part-time job . Thinking about the idea of "Since you feel bad about studying, let you know the hardships of work" , but will things really develop as she thinks? On the first day of
's visit, the child seemed a little dazed and uncomfortable facing the cement shovel and cement sand at first, which made Ms. Chen secretly delighted: The stinky boy must know that he is ready to read in a few days.
School is about to start, Ms. Chen asked her son: "Is it easy to make money? Is it better to study?"
Ms. Chen was dumbfounded. Seeing that the one-month deadline is about to pass, the child has not told herself that it is not good to work , I want to read, do you really like the construction site?
School is about to start, Ms. Chen asked her son: "Is it easy to make money? Is it better to study?"
"Mom, I think the construction site is very good, I don't want to study anymore" , the child's words made Ms. Chen dumbfounded. , She was also very worried, how could this be good, so she posted this matter on the Internet, asking for the help of netizens, and netizens also commented below:
"This is great, the child doesn't want to study anymore."
"This child will suffer from lack of culture sooner or later!"
"Why is this mother's method different from others? Would it be better to change her method?"
Actually, this mother's approach is right , but it is not appropriate enough, parents may wish to take the following measures when their children are disgusted with learning.
How should parents deal with their children's dislike of school?
- Planning the learning sequence for children
The main reason for children's dislike of learning is because difficult problems bring frustration to children, parents can let their children start simple, complete the parts they will do first, and then work with parents Complete the parts that will not be done, and gradually cultivate children's learning fun.
Blindly fighting the problem will only reduce the child's learning efficiency and , and will give parents an illusion that their children are procrastinating in homework, and parents are likely to misunderstand their children.
- Encourage children
Parents must encourage children to complete their homework actively, and must avoid using negative language to judge children, let alone discourage children's enthusiasm for learning.
Parents' encouragement to their children is always the biggest motivation for children to learn . Only when parents understand, support and encourage children can children go further and further on the road of learning.
- Parents should accompany their children more.
Many parents often like to stare at their children to do their homework while they are watching TV and movies . This will undoubtedly affect their children's learning efficiency.
Accompanying is not the same as companionship. How would you feel when someone is playing with a mobile phone while you are working?
Xin's mother said that
educating children is never an easy task, and school weariness is something that every child will experience in adolescence, and how parents deal with their children's school weariness is a great study.
Therefore, the communication between parents and children is very important. Only by strengthening the parent-child relationship can children open their hearts to parents, and parents can more easily understand what children think.
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