For aging parents, when they move slowly, when they are no longer healthy, when they unconsciously look at their children's reactions after doing or speaking, it means that they are indeed old.
But they still have their own preferences. Maybe they want to walk around the community by themselves; maybe they want to raise chickens and grow vegetables in the courtyard of their hometown; or maybe they still want to live in the old house and don’t want to live in their children’s home. of tall buildings.
But the children are worried. They are worried that if their children are not with them, what should they do if they have a sudden illness? Take a walk here and there, what should you do if you get lost or bump into something? What should I do if I attend an event for the elderly and get deceived by a scammer selling health products?
Over time, the idea of children trying to change their outlook on life becomes an unpleasant factor for them.
It is really difficult for people to get old. They have to admit cruelly that they are indeed old, and they have to give up many of their favorite things, likes and dislikes.
It is said that the greatest filial piety is obedience. But sometimes I really don’t dare to follow the old man too much. Because the dangers they fear are everywhere.
people, getting old is getting old. No matter how unwilling, how helpless, how much you want to fight, you can't withstand the invasion of time.
Acknowledge old age, accept old age, and accept physical and psychological changes with a peaceful mind.
accept the idea of children trying to change their life concepts, and the elderly should let their inner unhappiness turn into relief.
Acknowledging that one is old is to open one's heart to walk peacefully in the future, to accept reality optimistically, and to be a new acceptance of oneself.
