Everyone’s interpersonal communication style is different, some are public, some are reserved, some are giving, some are harvesting, some are peaceful, some are excited, but no matter what the method is, as long as it can blend in with the surroundings, it is fine, or it is appropriate.
Chapter 1. Conceit
Conceit is a taboo in interpersonal communication. Arrogant people always think that they are right and always center on themselves. It is always difficult to feel the needs and feelings of others, which makes people stay away. A person who has no choice will not feel that the people around him dislike him. He just wondered why people around him were always reluctant to get close to him.
Second, jealousy
Jealousy also plays an important role in interpersonal relationships. Jealousy will push others away, offend many people, put yourself and others in opposition, and may also attack and blame each other, affecting interpersonal relationships.
Third, is more suspicious than . Suspicion also affects interpersonal relationships. Suspiciousness is not the same as jealousy. There are still traces of jealousy. At least they have a better place than you. Suspicion is not true, it may be completely groundless, making it impossible for people to improve their relationship. At least when you are jealous, you will be fine if others let you go; once you are suspected, it will be difficult to eliminate.
Chapter 4. Inferiority
People with low self-esteem always do not express themselves in interpersonal relationships, which makes people not want to get close to them. People with low self-esteem rarely participate in group activities and seldom come out to talk to others. Therefore, low self-esteem still has a great impact on interpersonal communication.
Fifth, control
In interpersonal interactions, some people always like to control. If these people meet someone who is obedient and likes to obey, they will be a natural match; it's just that more people crave independence and make their own decisions without interference. It is difficult for most people to coexist peacefully.
These five obstacles are taboos in interpersonal communication. If you find that you need adjustments in this area, you might as well try our psychological counseling. This is an area of personal growth consulting.
