A few days ago, I heard a friend leave tens of millions of assets for his wife and left the house with nothing. Why do you say it again? Because this is his third divorce, and each marriage lasts an average of two and a half years. He was very successful in his career. Every time he divorced, he left the house with nothing. In just a few years, he earned tens of millions of assets again, leaving it to his wife - such a cycle.
Have you ever wondered when love comes, no matter how rational you are, you will be so fascinated and intoxicated? Want to be with each other all the time, or even not see each other for a day, like three autumns? Why is there a saying that love is blind, love makes people crazy or even love makes people addicted?
Italian neuroscientist Professor Marazziti said: "We already know that 'love' is an emotion closely linked to survival, and is regulated by a mechanism that also helps us resist danger. That is to say, the human brain is responsible for areas where unconsciously fighting or fleeing under environmental stimulation, and is also responsible for making us fall in love."
Latest research shows that when you are in love, the body secretes serotonin, but dopamine and phenethylamine, which are related to happiness and satisfaction, enter the blood circulation and stimulate the basal ganglia through the hypothalamus. In other words, the chemical reactions produced by men and women in love are the same as those when they are addicted to nicotine or drugs. Even when a person is in love, the effect of the drug withdrawal reaction is similar. So love can really be addictive. It can be said that falling into love is like embarking on a crazy journey. People will always be in high spirits and ecstasy. The reactions of lovers make us happy or fall into despair at any time. We will always miss our lover, and he/she is the most special existence in our eyes.
The changes in nerve conduction substances also explain why for some more vulnerable people. Emotional relationships can become major crises in life, and even induce mental illness or abnormal behaviors such as stalking and attacking others.
At the same time, excessive secretion of dopamine will cause delusions. Because of love, the deeper the love, the stronger the jealousy (ownership). These are all related to hormone secretion during love.
After research, psychologists found that there is a special type of person in the population, that is, people who are "addicted" to love hormones such as dopamine and posterior oxytocin. Such people will once the levels of hormones such as oxytocin in the posterior lobe subsidence, they will obtain a source of stimulation by finding another love. My friend belongs to this type of person. The typical representative of this type of person is Prince Duan in the Tianlong Bazi. When you love, you are indeed true love, but you will soon find a new love.
