People often say that character determines destiny. Little do people know that bad attitudes often affect career achievements and progress. And career also determines destiny to a certain extent. Therefore, mentality also determines destiny. This article’s author briefly analyzes several common bad mentalities.
1. "Zeng Huihuang" mentality.
In daily life, we often meet some people who say, "I have been like this." Some people may have been a high-ranking official, held important positions, or did something big, or earned a lot of money. They were once extraordinary, but for various reasons, they are now ordinary. Therefore, they always live in the extraordinary past. When people treat mortals in their daily lives, they feel indignant and unable to balance, which will affect their current situation. This kind of mentality is called the "Zeng Huihuang" mentality.
2. "Glorious old friends" mentality.
Each of us will have classmates and friends. These classmates and friends were once the same people as us, but due to various reasons, different opportunities and abilities, some of the classmates and friends in the past have become famous even in the world. In our lives, people often think that the achievements of classmates and friends are their own achievements. They often show off in front of others, saying that their friends are already doing something, and that their classmates are already doing something, and that, subconsciously, they are so arrogant! This kind of mentality is called the "glorious old friends" mentality.
3. "Glorious experience" mentality.
Things are developing and progressing, and the environment is changing. However, some people do not understand this principle and do not know how to move experience on this issue to another problem, experience at this location to another location, experience at this time to another time, and experience under this condition to another condition. This is not possible! They just kept doing it every now and I did this in the past, and how I succeeded, so I was unaware of my opinions, and I was stubborn and stubborn. The author calls this type of mentality the mentality of people the "glorious experience" mentality.
4. "Glorious grades" mentality
People like this are often academic masters when they were students, with strong learning ability and high scores. They are the pride of the class, the pride of classmates, and the darling of teachers. But after working, once you enter society, regardless of your grades, you will be at the same point, and you will coordinate various relationships and handle various affairs. It is often not comparable to a simple exam, nor can you measure it by scores. When they encounter setbacks in their work and career difficulties, they are often angry and often nag at others, how awesome I was when I was in school, etc. This type of person is called the mentality of "glorious achievements".
The above mentality often leads to:
1. Irresponsible complaints. Don’t talk to each other in person, talk to each other behind the scenes; don’t talk to each other in a meeting, talk to each other after the meeting. There is no principle of collective life in my mind, only laissez-faire.
2. If the command is not subject to it, personal opinion is the first. Without organization, no discipline, no team spirit, no cooperation spirit, I am the best in the world.
3. Don’t do things seriously, have no certain plans, have no certain direction, be perfunctory, just live by yourself, be a monk and hit the clock for a day.
4. I think I have made contributions, I am qualified to show my old qualifications, I can't do big things, I don't do small things, I work casually, and I can't study.
And the above manifestations caused by the above mentality are corrosive agents for careers, corrosive agents for achieving new achievements, corrosive agents for not forgetting their original intentions, corrosive agents for peace of mind, corrosive agents for unity, corrosive agents for progress and development.
Only by overcoming the above mentality, starting from scratch, working hard, and studying hard can we create new glory.
