Some people say, "If you often dream of the same person, it means that the other person is forgetting you." Some people say, "Always dreaming of the other person means that you miss him deeper and deeper." Regarding dreams, we are always curious and mysterious; one of the most fa

Some people say:

"Frequently dreaming of the same person means that the other party is forgetting you."

Some people also say:

"Always dreaming of the other party means that you miss him deeper and deeper."

Regarding dreams, we always feel curious and mysterious; one of the most famous dream analysis is "Analysis of Dreams" by " Freud ".

Freud divided dreams into three forms:

Physical factors, chemical factors, and psychological factors.

The reason why you frequently dream about the other person is related to these factors.

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Psychological factors: Dreaming of each other means that your fate is over

Do you believe it?

In fact, there is an "energy field" between people. The farther the distance between

, the weaker the energy field between two people, which shows that energy is related to physical distance. The closer the distance between

, the higher the frequency of getting along, the longer the time, the stronger the energy field.

energy field can also be understood as "attraction".

One is iron and the other is magnet. When the two meet, they will snuggle together tightly, making it difficult to give up.

But as long as you separate some distance, the energy field of the two people gradually weakens.

Analysis from a psychological perspective:

You always dream about each other, and there are two main factors.

1. You miss him very deeply

"I think about it every day and dream about it at night", which means you are missing someone.

When you miss the other person, your brain continues to secrete a series of hormones such as dopamine , hormones, oxytocin , causing your emotions to fluctuate violently.

Miss the person who left you. Your emotions are sometimes sad, sometimes sad, sometimes regretful, sometimes miss them.

Missing someone you have a crush on, your emotions will be happy and happy. The emergence of

The dream is directly related to emotional fluctuations.

You are usually in a stable mood, regular routine, and sleep well, and you will not dream;

And you are unstable, irregular routine, and have many worries, and you will easily dream.

2. The other party is forgetting you

This can also be understood as:

The relationship between you and the other party has reached the point of "the fate is over".

For example:

You have been separated from each other for a long time and have not met for a long time.

There is still missing him, emotion and obsession for him in your subconscious mind; but in the end, you still have no chance to meet.

At this time, you are struggling in your mind:

A voice tells you, if you miss it, go see you;

A voice tells you, since the fate is over, just forget it.

In the struggle of consciousness, you will frequently dream of the other person.

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Dreaming of the other party’s physical and chemical factors

are also very interesting.

What are physical factors?

For example:

When you cut vegetables, you accidentally cut your hand; then when you sleep at night, you may dream that someone is chasing you with a sharp weapon, which makes you feel a sense of crisis.

This is emotional transmission + physical factors that ultimately constitute the dream.

Then what are chemical factors?

Chemical factors are related to odor, physiological feelings, etc.

For example:

You feel thirsty when you sleep, then you are prone to dreaming of drinking water;

You are missing the other person, and the brain releases oxytocin and secretes dopamine, which leads you to dream of the person you are missing.

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Why do you easily forget what happened in your dreams after you wake up?

Most people have similar experiences:

When dreaming, you can clearly feel your emotional changes in your dreams.

After awakening, only emotions remain, but I forgot the main things that happened in my dreams, and only remember roughly.

This is because:

What you forget is very important to you;

What determines your dream is your subconscious mind dominates; what you have not forgotten is your " preconscious ".

utterly complicated.

can be simply understood as:

What you forget is the consciousness that is always hidden in your mind;

What you can't let go is the memory you engraved in your mind.

Murakami Haruki has a book called " After Darkness ". There is a character named "Takahashi" in

. When he was 7 years old, he lost his beloved mother; after his mother passed away, his father cared for him less and less and became more and more indifferent.

Until one day, my father started a new marriage and found him a stepmother.

Living with them makes Takahashi more depressed and he lives unhappy every day.

For a long time, Takahashi had the same dream, and he dreamed that he was back when he was 7 years old, and he became an orphan and his mother left him. In the book

, Takahashi said this:

"A person is an orphan once, and he will be an orphan until he grows old."

What does this mean?

shows that a person's growth experience, subconsciousness, emotions, environment, etc. will have an impact on dreams.

What you miss, what you forget;

You hate, what you are happy;

Past tense, in progress.

These will constitute your dream.

Actually, I prefer this explanation:

Dreaming of someone means that the other party is also missing you.

In the world of affection, we need small happiness and deep affection again and again.

Today’s topic:

Have you ever dreamed of someone frequently?

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