Have you heard of the "ketchup effect"?
This is a psychological concept. The explanation for it in the
Encyclopedia is: "Soak the same vegetables in different water for a period of time, and then cook them separately, and the taste becomes different."
Kimchi effect, suggesting the impact of the environment on a person. The impact of the environment on people is of decisive significance.
For example, the story of "Meng's Mother Three Migrations" that we are familiar with.
Mengmu In order to give children a good education, they keep moving with their children and choosing the environment that is most suitable for children's growth and learning.
For example, in " Shawshank's Redemption ", the old man was released after being imprisoned in prison for more than 40 years, and he was not very happy after being released from prison.
Not long after, the old man chose to commit suicide.
Why? Because he has been in prison for more than 40 years and has long been familiar with the environment and life inside.
He is inside, he has fixed friends, is familiar with the lifestyle inside, and can even read books in the library.
But what about after being released from prison? He was unfamiliar with the place and was older, so he lost the belief to survive.
In " Maritime Pianist ", the male protagonist "1900" was born on the ship and then lived on that ship all the time.
Finally, the ship completed its mission and was to be blasted and sunk into the sea.
The rest of the people got off the ship, and only "1900" chose to stay and follow the ship to end their destiny.
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environment will affect your personality
psychologists have done an experiment.
Two very docile gorilla are placed in two rooms respectively. The wall between these two rooms is a piece of glass, and the orangutans can see each other.
There are many mirrors placed in the room to "reflect" the orangutan itself.
When the orangutans see their kind selves in the mirror, they become happier and happier, and their living conditions are not greatly affected.
Psychologists replaced one of the orangutans with a grumpy, fierce and aggressive orangutan.
Results show that after
After changing into the irritable orangutan, the orangutan, which was originally docile, became irritable, angry, and aggressive.
This experiment proves one thing: the impact of the environment on animals and humans is profound.
3 who lives with will subtly affect your personality.
For example:
Your personality is originally steady and orderly, and you are not too slow to encounter things. You are used to planning in advance and completing your goals step by step.
But you have changed into a new job, and all the colleagues you meet are "decisive" in doing things and are impatient.
In this environment, your original working mode will not be adapted to.
After a long time, you haven't even noticed that your personality has been changed unknowingly.
You also become anxious, walking with the wind and doing things without delaying the mud.
Your stability has also become impatient.
There are always people who say:
A person's success depends on his own "willpower"; the stronger the willpower, the closer the success is to success.
In fact, willpower is just a factor in success, and the most important factor is the "environment".
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Environment will affect a person's "pattern"
For example:
You live in towns, rural areas, and small places every day.
The people you deal with every day are in the vegetable market, in the factory, in the country road, in the land.
The content of communication every day is: the neighbor's child has given birth again, who bought another car, who has a conflict between the couple, and where the food is cheaper.
Live in this environment, and you only have this in your eyes and you can't see a bigger world.
If you jump out of this environment and go to the big cities outside to see, your horizons and patterns will be opened.
Different environments will shape different personalities; different personalities determine our pattern.
Have you ever felt this way?
When you live in a big city for a few years and then return to your hometown to live, you find it difficult to adapt to the pace and lifestyle of your hometown.
Even socializing, the interaction between relatives and neighbors makes you feel uncomfortable.
The same is true if you always live in a small town.
For some reason, you go to a big city and come to a big city, and you find yourself like a "frog in a well".
unconsciously feel awe, nervous and afraid of the surrounding environment.
You don’t even have the courage to go to some supermarkets and restaurants with more luxurious decorations, you think that’s a place you can’t afford to consume.
People with big structure are not only because of the environment they are in that they can contact more things, but also because of the circle of friends around them, they are also people with big structures.
Different environments also create a different pattern for a person.
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Environment will affect a person's emotions and behaviors
When you live at home every day, you will feel bored and do nothing, and you will only play with your phone or watch TV every day.
However, if you take away the TV in the living room, replace the TV wall with a bookcase, and the home is full of books.
When you are bored, you won’t think of playing with your phone, you will pick up a book and read it.
After a long time, you will develop the good habit of loving reading.
is at home, not suitable for work or study;
is in the library, you are not willing to play with your phone.
This is the impact of the environment on a person's behavior.
You walk on the street with your lover, at most you will only hold hands;
But if you two are in the cinema, in the dark environment, you will be unable to help hug, kiss, or have more intimate actions.
This is the impact of psychology's "dark effect" on a person's behavior.
environment will also affect a person's emotions.
If you are with people with stable, optimistic and positive emotions, your mood will also improve, be full of confidence, and be full of expectations for the future.
If you are with people who are emotionally unstable, negative and negative, and complain every day, your emotions will also become negative.
who is with will directly determine your life.
From childhood to adulthood, the environment that can change us is:
native family, school, friends, love, work, marriage.
Never ignore the meaning of the environment. What kind of people are with
really matters.
Today’s topic:
Do you think the environment has a great impact on a person?
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