When attending his son’s high school class meeting, the teacher said affectionately that every child with poor grades is here to repay his kindness! Parents are asked not to blame their children for their grades too much and encourage them more. At that time, I still think the teacher is a little reactionary? But this time my father was hospitalized, I really realized the meaning of this sentence, and I finally felt a little relieved for this son who had just finished the college entrance examination.
The coolies I ran up and down were all the sons doing
My father had a stroke before, so he felt weak in his legs and feet and thought about the brain problem. He could not diagnose the two hospitalizations and even became more and more serious, and later he was completely paralyzed. Later, the hospital was changed to another examination and the diagnosis of Guillimbare syndrome was obtained, followed by the treatment of high-dose globulin and hormones. The doctor said that it would take a long time to delay, and if the diagnosis was confirmed at the beginning, it would be very fast to recover. Now heals are pretty good. Since my elder brother and I were both working in other places, my son became the main force during the period when my father was hospitalized and recovered. Running up and down in the hospital, pushing my grandma to check, taking my grandma to do nucleic acid, going to the hospital early every morning to meet the medicine sent from outside, etc., in this autumn tiger weather, I was sweating all over, without any complaints. When he came back from the hospital, he was also holding the hospital out of the car. He even helped his father urinating and defecating. It was really touching and made me see the other side of my son.
In order to make my grandfather a little fun, he bought a TV and installed it for his grandfather to show him
My son's pre-middle school grades were actually very good, and he was also a top student. However, after more than two years of treatment for a serious illness, I wonder if it was a side effect of hormone drugs, but this person felt changed. Not only did his grades plummet, but he also became irritable. I remember that my son was sent to the emergency room overnight that night in winter. He vomited in the hospital for a night before falling asleep. When I woke up at night, I also said: Dad, I'm sorry, I want you to worry all night. At that time, I felt that my son was still very sensible. However, in the years after the treatment, I really felt like I had a different person and basically had no hope for him. I also did my duty when I came back from the college entrance examination and took care of the pick-up and drop-off. I never thought that he would have any surprises. Of course, there were no surprises when the results came out. I thought about what I love, but gave up. Although it feels easy to think about it this way, I still feel uncomfortable when I see my colleagues' children being admitted to various prestigious universities. But so what? However, this time my father was sick, his son did very well, and his tone of speaking to him also eased a lot.
son's son took the college entrance examination and wore a red dress and drove a red car to pick it up and drop it off every day.
As the teacher said, children with poor grades come to repay their kindness! Think about it, it's actually true. When I was having tea and chatting with my neighbors during the Mid-Autumn Festival, a neighbor who worked in the Laokatan Office said that many of the children of his old leaders were excellent, but so what, he ended up becoming an empty-nest elderly person. He said with emotion: It’s all the best children to the country! If you think about it carefully, what's going on. What is our purpose in raising children? Is it just like flying a kite and watching the kite fly away? Of course it is good to be excellent and by your side, but how many can you have here!
will be working for 30 years, and it will be advanced every year over the past ten years, so what?
I have also comforted others: I am not very happy about this path within the system. If I ask my child to get into a good school and repeat this path, will he be happy? Since you are unhappy, why do you have to repeat this path? In fact, you don’t have to worry about it when you think about it. You can’t be hungry if you do anything now. The happiness of the future should not be related to material things. This time I was on a business trip, a new college student told me about the issue of class crossing. I felt a little disdainful. All classes have room for happiness, so why should I be anxious?
Everyone has different ideas, but this time my son's performance during his father's illness was really relieved. He didn't ask his son to achieve any achievements that shocked the world and made ghosts and gods, so he just lived an ordinary life, and it was actually very happy to have a simple meal.
Everyone has his own path, and he has never crossed it. Why bother making things difficult for the child!
Every child is an angel, there is no need to be demanding or blame, you just need to wait for the flowers to bloom!
