This is a long-standing tragedy. When the daughter's mind begins to sprout, it will be shattered or destroyed by the father's reaction. Why did such a thing happen?
Animus is the component of a man retained in the subconscious of a woman. As the girl grows up, her Animus component is inevitably growing, and her external manifestations may be independence, innovation, exploration, quarrel, counterattack, etc.
In reality, many fathers really don’t want to see their “little cotton jacket” change like this, so they will frustrate their daughter in words or actions. So when the daughter starts to develop Animus, she will be scolded by her father, and even the two sides will become incompatible. This situation has happened in many families, so it takes a lot of time to bridge the relationship in the future.
And for boys, the same is true.
When boys' anima develop, they just stand everywhere, their faces are full of acne, and their minds are endless fantasies, and they can write very emotional love poems for girls. At this time, the comments or mockery of the mother or sister will have an impact or destructive effect on the development of the boy Anima.
families have children. As parents, at certain stages of their children's growth, they need to have a detached attitude to see the reasons for some things, but at the same time, they need to carefully ignore these things . Is it difficult to do this in
, but it is indeed necessary!
