can effectively prevent domestic violence is a very difficult question. So is there a simple way in the world that can predict whether a person is violent or suffers from other mental illnesses that can easily lead to violence before the couple gets married or has children? The answer is yes, but many people don’t think of it. Spread psychology and protect mental health. Hello everyone, I am Buhuozhimicunliqi. Welcome everyone to follow me, I will solve the above puzzles for you from a psychological perspective.
Many of us may have been spanked by our parents when we were children. As parents, we may also spank our children out of anger sometimes. But when we are beaten or hit our children, the shock is greater than the punishment, and we will not be cruel. But on June 30, a domestic violence incident occurred in Ningbo, Zhejiang, in which a father brutally kicked his 2-year-old son. The violent father even rushed into the kitchen to get a knife and threatened to kill his son. Fortunately, with the help of his family, the tragedy did not happen. The police have now brought the violent father under control. As for why the father was so cruel to his 2-year-old son, it is still unclear.
Many people have put forward some good suggestions on how to prevent and deal with domestic violence, such as strengthening legal means, raising national awareness, enhancing family harmony, providing psychological counseling, etc. I think they are all correct, but they are too general. Today I would like to make a more specific and practical suggestion, that is, like premarital examination , both parties must compulsorily undergo a psychological test before marriage, and the results of the psychological test shall be announced to both parties. . For those invisible patients whose test results show that they have violent tendencies or other serious mental illnesses, corresponding psychological counseling and treatment should be provided. If the results are not good, the other party should be advised to choose marriage carefully. Those with violent tendencies or severe mental illness are prohibited from getting married until they recover. This will prevent many people from discovering that the other party has violent tendencies or other mental illnesses only after they get married, and will also avoid the occurrence of many domestic violence.
In order to promote good health and good education, couples must apply for registration and undergo physical examination and psychological testing before planning to have a child. If either spouse's physical fitness does not meet the standard, they will not be allowed to have children for the time being. They can only apply again after their body is adjusted to meet the standard. If either spouse fails to meet the psychological test standards, the target of having a child will not be given temporarily to prevent the child from being abandoned or abused due to irresponsibility or mental disorder after birth. Physical examination is for real eugenics, and psychological testing is for real eugenics. By achieving both of these aspects, it can not only reduce the divorce rate of couples, but also improve the fertility quality and safety of children, both innate and acquired. It can be said to kill two birds with one stone. I don’t know if you think my suggestion makes sense or is it feasible? Everyone is welcome to leave a message in the comment area for discussion. See you next time.
