The child has entered adolescence and is extremely emotionally unstable. He often comes back from school with a sad face. No matter how much our family coaxes him, it doesn't help. Peel the fruit for him, and he will get angry because he doesn't want to eat it, blaming the parents for unnecessary efforts. If we gave him a little suggestion about his study or behavior, he would lock himself in a room or cover his head to sleep in protest. During the entire weekend, we either did homework or stayed away from our phones and computers. We were immersed in our own world. We are all transparent people. We are worried that he cannot learn English, and he will say that he cannot learn English every day, making you anxious, but in fact, his grades are not that bad... In short, the whole person is extremely abnormal.
We finally made it to the end of the semester with trepidation. The earth students final exam was held a few days ago. During the period when the results did not come out, his mood was always uncertain. The goal he set for himself was to be in a key high school and must be double A. I kept trying to enlighten him and relieve his stress. Because he had always had excellent grades, I believed he would be fine. But the more he behaved like this, the more he feared what might happen. The results came out this afternoon, and I resisted not calling him to ask. I knew he would definitely call me if he had good news. At 8:30 in the evening, he left for evening self-study, and I received a call on time to announce the good news. My son is very happy, and my mood is also full of sunshine. This is really good news after a long time. This mood can probably last until the final exam [cover face] [cover face] [cover face]
The uncertainty of adolescence is really difficult for parents to control. I found that every time my son got good news in his studies, made a breakthrough in his activities, or had someone he admired to chat with, he would be happy for several days. Youth
needs to be affirmed, because his thinking and psychological development are unbalanced. In layman's terms, he feels that he is very powerful, but he does not have the psychological stability and ability to control emotions of an adult. If you can give him a certain amount of affirmation, you can stabilize his mood and create a happy mood. Mastering this, we parents can find ways to affirm our children during this special period and alleviate the troubles that adolescence brings to us.
