Today we are going to learn the seven laws of psychological power. First, just doing good work will not be recognized. If you want to gain power, a good work ethic isn't enough. Working long hours can easily be overlooked. Those who have power and success are those who work hard

Today we are going to learn the seven laws of psychological power.

First, just working hard will not be recognized.

If you want to gain power, a good work ethic isn't enough. Working long hours can easily be overlooked. Those who have power and success are those who work hard and get recognition. If you don't stand out, you'll be buried in the background and your work will be overshadowed and forgotten, no matter how good you are. So, take every opportunity to lead and prove yourself. If you stand out, you can achieve your goals before anyone else.

Second, hide your intentions.

Imagine you are at the dealership about to buy a new car. A car salesman shows you a model that you really like. You tell the salesman how much you want to own the car. The salesman knows your intentions. So he raised the price. Why? Because you showed him your desire. That's why it's so important to hide your intentions. Okay, let's go back to our example. You loved the car, but this time you acted like you didn't care. Now it's the salesperson trying to convince you to buy from him. Most of the time the salesman will lower the price to win your favor. So if you want to gain psychological power, hide your intentions, hold the power in every exchange, and make the final decision.

Third, actions speak louder than arguments.

You can argue as long as you want. You can take home a moral victory, but winning an argument does little to gain psychological strength. Don't waste time arguing. If anyone wants to argue, let them. If they want to defend themselves, let them keep it to themselves. But you know actions speak louder than words. Your actions will win over more people than a good debate.

Fourth, watch your words.

The more you talk, the less valuable your speech becomes. This is one of the most important laws of psychological power. If you speak only when necessary, you increase the power of your words. People will learn to listen to you. They will learn to take you seriously, and you will gain their eternal respect. So if you talk all the time, people tend to ignore your words. Also, if you talk less, you can avoid making clumsy mistakes. Many people talk nonsense and paint themselves into a corner. They often leak details or make promises that they can't actually follow through on. So if you watch what you say, you can avoid these nonsense mistakes. You want to make sure every word you say is intentional and purposeful.

Fifth, cultivate self-confidence.

Your path will be strewn with obstacles, failures, and setbacks. Your luck will run out. People will tell you to quit smoking because your own brain is holding you back. But people who give up deprive themselves of psychological strength. So, if you want to improve your self-confidence in life, let your small successes give you self-worth. Let every victory give you the courage to overcome. Your next obstacle is not just your relationships with others, but your relationship with yourself!

Sixth, hire your enemies.

On the road to success, friends are dangerous. We turn a blind eye to our friends. We ignore their mistakes and place too much trust in their decisions. Just when you think you trust someone, they stab you in the back and your career starts to suffer. But hiring someone you don't trust will give you a clear head. Your enemies will also show more loyalty to you because they have something to prove. Friends are an important part of your life, but they can steal your power in an instant.

Seventh, people are selfish.

If you need help, don't expect others to be selfless. People are more likely to help when they have something to gain. If they don't get as much as they give, you're out of luck.Any time you ask someone for help, don't waste your time. Anytime you ask someone for a favor, don't waste your time on kindness and gratitude. Cater to their self-interest and explain how they will be rewarded. Convince them that helping you can solve their problems. Make sure they know exactly how they will benefit in the future.

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