We all have friends. People say that it is easier to get things done when you have more friends, and it is easier to travel when you have more friends. But do you know your friend’s personality? Do you know what kind of friend is worthy of your sincerity? In fact, it is very easy to see through people's hearts, just look at a small gesture from him or her.
When you are talking to a friend, his or her posture is:
A One hand supports the cheek.
B kept rubbing his ears.
C kept stroking his chin with his hand.
D The thumb holds the chin, and the other fingers cover the mouth or nose.
choose to analyze
1. People who choose A
are relatively unmotivated people. He will hold his cheek with one hand to show that he cannot concentrate on listening to you and only expects you to end the topic quickly or it will be his turn to speak. In fact, he doesn't really have anything to say, he just finds your conversation annoying. This kind of person is usually lazy all day long, has no energy to do anything, is not very enthusiastic about friends' affairs, and seems to want to be in a daze all day long. If you don't know him very well and you see him holding his cheek with one hand while talking, then you'd better end the topic quickly, or change the topic to one that interests him so as not to bore the other person.
2. Choose B
. He is a person who can't stay still, or he likes to talk and doesn't like to be an audience. Usually when a person is impatient, he can control his tone of voice and expression so that you will not notice his impatience, but his body movements will subconsciously reveal his thoughts. These cannot be disguised. Even if your physical performance skills are very good, some flaws will be revealed unconsciously. If you find that your friend has been touching his ears, it is best to stop and ask for their opinion. Otherwise, it is very likely that you are annoying him because of you, and your relationship will not be easy to maintain.
3. Select C
. He is a person who likes to think very much. He is often lost in thought alone and cannot even hear what you are saying. If you don’t believe it, next time you see him stroking his chin, ask him what you just said, and he will definitely not be able to answer. Although this kind of person likes to think about things, he is not willing to scheme against others. He just sometimes gets into trouble and gets stuck in the maze of thinking and cannot get out. Because he is prone to random thoughts, his performance in interpersonal relationships is also relatively neurotic. Once you understand his character, you should avoid giving him hints. He is a very sensitive person and thinks about everything by himself. It is very troublesome to get along or talk with him.
4. Choose D
He is a very opinionated person, because when you speak, he always covers the area near his mouth with his hands, which means that he does not seem to agree with what you say, but he is embarrassed to say it. And this kind of action is a defensive posture for fear of accidentally spilling the beans. People who usually cover their mouth or nose with their hands may have two possible psychological reactions. One is that they want to refute you, and the other is that they are lying. After you understand this physical reaction, if you encounter him with this posture again, you can observe more carefully whether he is covering his mouth when listening to you or covering his mouth when speaking. If it is speaking, it is obvious that you do not mean what you say; if it is listening to you speaking, it means that you disagree with what you said, so it is best to be reserved when you speak.
