What is love? Perhaps, for some people, love is passion and surprise. For some people, love means being willing to give up everything for each other. But some people think that love is letting go, and love is guarding silently.
Just like today's protagonist Weng Duanwu, he is a very typical representative. He once reduced the living expenses of his wife and daughter in order to take care of Lu Xiaoman , but he could not get Lu Xiaoman's sincerity until his death.
I have to say that there is a big difference between Weng Duanwu’s enthusiasm and Lu Xiaoman’s attitude. Many people think that Weng Duanwu’s behavior is not worth it, but whether it is worth it or not, only the person involved, Weng Duanwu himself, will know. . Next, let us walk into this relationship that is constantly being cut and messed up.
The two met because of Xu Zhimo.
Lu Xiaoman's graceful figure and outstanding appearance were very popular at the time. Many men fell under her pomegranate skirt. Maybe it was fate, but Lu Xiaoman met her when she met her. Before arriving at Xu Zhimo, she had already married Xu Zhimo's good friend.
But after Lu Xiaoman got along with Xu Zhimo, she knew that her feelings were out of control, so in order to be with Xu Zhimo naturally, she did not hesitate to abort the little life in her belly.
However, it was this abortion experience that caused many diseases in Lu Xiaoman's body, and even lost the opportunity to be a mother forever. In this case, Xu Zhimo was deeply moved by Lu Xiaoman's dedication to him, so , in order for Lu Xiaoman to have a healthy body, he began a journey to seek medical treatment everywhere.
In this way, with the help of Xu Zhimo, Weng Duanwu and Lu Xiaoman met. Weng Duanwu was very skilled in medicine at the time and was deeply appreciated by everyone. Of course, in addition to his identity as a doctor, Weng Duanwu also has another identity, that of a rich man.
Weng Duanwu's family is very wealthy and his background is very powerful. In addition, Weng Duanwu's father attaches great importance to his children's education. Therefore, he has been very strict with Weng Duanwu since he was a child. He is a very talented person.
In the process of treating Lu Xiaoman, the communication between Xu Zhimo and Weng Duanwu became more and more, and the two became very good friends. At the same time, Weng Duanwu and Lu Xiaoman also found a common topic. In this way, the relationship between the three people became very subtle, and it became a topic of conversation for everyone after dinner.
Smiling for a beauty, squeezing his wife and daughter
After maintaining this living situation for a period of time, it was not until November 1931 that things took a turn. At that time, Xu Zhimo had to attend Lin Huiyin 's lecture. He had been away for a while, so he entrusted Weng Duanwu with taking care of Lu Xiaoman's daily life.
I thought it was just an ordinary farewell, but who knew that it would become the last farewell between the two of them. When Lu Xiaoman heard the news that Xu Zhimo died in a plane crash, felt very sad and stayed in his room for a while. At this time, Xu Zhimo's father learned about the rumors about Weng Duanwu and Lu Xiaoman.
So he wrote a letter telling Lu Xiaoman to break up with Weng Duanwu as soon as possible or else he would cut off all her living expenses. When Weng Duanwu heard the news, whether because he liked Lu Xiaoman or out of anger, he confidently moved into Lu Xiaoman's home and lived together.
Regarding this, I don’t know what Lu Xiaoman’s psychology was, and he actually acquiesced to Weng Duanwu’s approach, and even announced that the two would live together for a long time.
It has to be said that Weng Duanwu takes very considerate care of Lu Xiaoman. Every day before Lu Xiaoman gets up, breakfast is prepared for her. If Lu Xiaoman feels slightly uncomfortable, Weng Duanwu will stay with him. . Weng Duanwu would always buy a lot of expensive clothes and jewelry just to make Lu Xiaoman happy.
At this moment, Weng Duanwu's wife and children are living a very difficult life because of Weng Duanwu's large expenditure. How affectionate he is to Lu Xiaoman, so his behavior towards his wife and children is a bit cruel.
Of course, Weng Duanwu's more cruel behavior didn't stop there. Because he could no longer have children until Lu Xiaoman, he planned to foster his little daughter with Lu Xiaoman, just to make Pomeranian smile.
It must be said that Weng Duanwu’s behavior deeply hurt his wife Chen Mingliu. Until 1951, Chen Mingliu passed away due to illness, and she was not able to see her until her death. Husband side.
Faced with her father's indifference, Weng Duanwu's daughter could no longer bear it. She rushed to Lu Xiaoman's home, with red eyes, and asked her father: Why didn't you divorce my mother earlier, so that she could at least find another one? A man who deserves her love can live a good life for a few years, but what does he do now?
Full of affection and cold eyes
Faced with his daughter's question, Weng Duanwu just stood aside guiltily, not knowing how to answer. Soon, Weng Duanwu suffered retribution, because in 1961, Weng Duanwu suffered from lung cancer and was about to pass away.
Many people came to the hospital to visit Weng Duanwu. Facing his friends in front of the hospital bed, Weng Duanwu didn't say much, but kept telling them to take good care of Lu Xiaoman in the future.
On the other hand, when Lu Xiaoman faced Weng Duanwu's imminent death, she did not show the slightest sadness. She just sat aside indifferently and watched with cold eyes. Even after Weng Duanwu passed away, the children of the Weng family thought that their father had devoted everything to Lu Xiaoman throughout his life, and planned to set up a mourning hall in Lu Xiaoman's home. However, Lu Xiaoman's answer was heartbreaking. She said: "Weng Duanwu and I just lived together, and we did not live together." If they are not a couple, there is no need at all. "
Such an answer is really convincing. After all, Weng Duanwu spent his whole life on Lu Xiaoman, but in the end he only said that they are just cohabitation, not a couple. I have to say that Weng Duanwu is affectionate, but that is only limited to Lu Xiaoman. He is only hurtful and cold-blooded to his wife.
Conclusion
Throughout Lu Xiaoman’s life, she put out fire for love, just to stay with Xu Zhimo for life. On the other hand, Weng Duanwu’s deep affection was destined to be let down in the end, because Xu Zhimo is an irreplaceable person in Lu Xiaoman’s heart. people.
Therefore, this tells us that we must learn to let go appropriately in love. Since we don’t love each other, we might as well give each other freedom. This is true for Weng Duanwu, so is Lu Xiaoman, and so is Weng Duanwu’s wife. The
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