Let alone a teacher, there is a member of the opposite sex who always pays attention to you in life, and you can feel it.
The teacher is the same, he is also a human, he can feel the kind of crush on him by his classmates.
Like many people, there is a teacher-loving complex. Random surveys have shown that eight out of ten people have liked their teacher. can't say why I listen to his class, like his class, and like him, he feels attractive.
Among them, male students like female teachers more, but some girls also like male teachers.
A head teacher of my junior high school, he used to be married before he started teaching. Because he was more humorous in class, he was very popular with his classmates. Among them was a female classmate who was indeed beautiful, and then after that female classmate finished junior high school, she married the head teacher. The head teacher was the female classmate who married after divorcing her original partner. When I was in junior high school, they already had a six or seven-year-old daughter, and their family ran a shop in the school.
After getting married, she is also quite affectionate, but there are also many contradictions, because there is still a difference in age between the two people, and the wife of the class teacher sometimes loves to behave sexually and has a small temper. There were a few times when the head teacher was in class. I heard that when his wife was having a temper again, she didn't even go to class, and then went out to look for her.
So the teacher will know that the classmates have a crush on themselves, then it depends on the control of both parties. Because the students are not yet mature, the relationship between the teacher and the student is generally fruitless.
Why does the student have a crush on the teacher?
The main reason is that when the teacher teaches us,They are higher than us. We people have worshiped and envied the strong since ancient times. And when the teacher gave us lessons, he showed full talk and his profound knowledge compared to his classmates. In the eyes of classmates, the teacher is the object of our admiration.
On the one hand, the teachers have received formal training and the practice exams are only available, so the teachers understand and understand the students better; Some students are liked by those who love to learn because of their knowledge; some Teachers are liked by those who are not understood in their lives because they are empathetic; some teachers are also liked by their classmates because of their gentleness; others are liked because of their short-term care, allowing students to truly integrate into the class Among the collective.
These are the inner qualities of teachers, which are easy to become objects of students' favorites, and then they will have a crush on the teacher.
There are also some classmates who have a crush on the teacher because they are young and attractive. After all, compared to the female classmates, the teacher is more charming; and some female classmates will have a crush on the teacher because of the handsomeness of the male teacher. These are because the teacher's own conditions are better.
Most people who have a crush on the teacher belong to the first situation. They like the teacher because of a certain quality of the teacher.
What are the specific performances of the secret love teacher?
1. I often find excuses to go to the office to find a teacher
Especially in the middle and high school period, boys and girls are at the early age of love. Young teachers have unique charms. First, they are young and beautiful. Second, they have an idol effect as a teacher. Students will have a teacher-oriented nature, and it is easy to like young teachers. At this time, I will often brush my presence in front of the teacher on the grounds of questioning or helping the teacher to get the book and water. Teachers usually feel it at this time.
2. Will actively answer the teacher’s questions in class
When a student likes the teacher,He will use various methods to attract the teacher's attention, one of which is to actively answer the teacher's questions, hoping to get the teacher's attention and affirmation.
Actively answering the teacher’s questions in class is beneficial to learning. This should be affirmed, but if you are keen on a certain subject because of a crush on the teacher, it is prone to crisis. If you have a crush on a person, you will be highly sensitive to a person's words and deeds. Then you may have bad emotions due to some of the teacher's language and behavior, which will affect your learning status.
III. Listen to the teacher's words
In addition to the appearance of the teacher, the student has a crush on the teacher. In addition to his personal charm, the student will be very happy to do things for the teacher he likes. Very well-behaved and obedient. Just like we like a girl, in order to pursue her, we will continue to please her and listen to her everything.
In fact, students listen to the teacher to make the teacher happy, and the students also want to make the person they like happy. Under normal circumstances, the teacher will not ask the student class to do private affairs for themselves, it is all about teaching, and the student class of the secret love teacher can actively help the teacher do some private affairs, like a couple.
How does the teacher deal with this situation
What the teacher has to do is to pour cold water and treat it cold, give the students the correct thought guidance, and refuse the help of the students. The teacher-student relationship in general is Don’t cross the boundary, otherwise the impact will be very bad;
Teacher knows that students have a crush on him. As a teacher, you must treat the student’s crush carefully. Grasp the proper measures to get along with each other. We must not allow this kind of emotion to overflow and spread, but we must promptly and decisively contain it.
If the student and the teacher really like each other, then wait until the student graduates from university. At that time, if the two of them still feel it,I am very supportive of two people being together.
is like Macron and Bridget:
Bridget loves literature and is a well-mannered intellectual woman. She started teaching literature in the 1980s. By 1990, she came to Amiens's Jesuit High School to teach French, Latin and drama. This is where she and the young Emmanuel Macron met. At the time, Macron was only 15 years old, and Bridget was his drama teacher and instructed him to play roles in drama. The young Macron was attracted by a teacher who was 24 years older than him. He admired Bridget’s talent and even exceeded her beauty. This is why his love can be so strong and not affected by time. One. The effort paid off. In January 2006, Bridget finally made up his mind to divorce her husband Ozier. This is the result of Macron's 14 years of hard work, and finally moved his sweetheart with a sincere heart. In October 2007, 30-year-old Macron finally entered the marriage palace with 54-year-old Bridget. For this moment, he endured people's worldly vision, parents' incomprehension, and the pressure of many rumors, but the facts proved , It's all worth it. In Macron’s own words: “I would not have become me without her.”
But it’s impossible to have a relationship between teachers and students in universities , you said you are an undergraduate Students, most of the teachers in the university graduated from postgraduates, and for Ph.D. graduates, it may not be too great for the two to get together. Maybe you admire the teacher, but the teacher looks down on you.
Actually,For students, it is a normal behavior for students to like teachers and a yearning for good; if we can become better because of this, and become more love to learn, it is also very good; and for teachers, It is enough to be able to maintain one's own attitude, be able to perform one's own duty, and try to help students with their studies.
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