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Love is a spiritual pillar for everyone. Some people value feelings on the surface, while others value feelings but are deeply hidden in their hearts. But no one can be completely separated from worldly emotions in any case.
If you are a person, you have seven emotions and six desires . Emotionally, pretend to be able to deceive others, but cannot deceive yourself.
Some people spend their entire lives wandering in love, and people and things that cannot be let go are an invisible but strong shackle that will make the person trapped in it breathless.
Only those who know how to forget are truly smart people. A wise man pretends to be confused half of his time, but because he is sober enough, he chooses to be confused.
Forgotten is a kind of free and easy life. There are too many things in life, and most of the things in life are not satisfactory. Only by learning to forget can you let go of the unhappiness of the past and face the next time with an elegant attitude.
The relationship between people is not strong. For most people, the people they meet in their lives are passers-by, and no one can really stay by their side.
But some people are unwilling to accept the reality and insist on meeting someone who should not see again, trying to modify the already set answer. On the road of life, the following four people should not continue to meet, as the price is too high.
Once in love, people who are destined to be together
The best way to treat love that is destined to be together is to give up completely.
Nest the word "未分" sounds affectionate, but in fact it will only bring spiritual torture to people. A wise man will not forget people who are destined to be destined to be destined to be destined to be destined to be respectful.
Love is just a feeling. When it comes, it will bring strong joy, and when it leaves, it will also break this joy.
Some people have met before, and some love has just appeared before. Even if you know that hard-willingness will not result, don’t continue to get entangled. Only by turning around freely can you avoid deeper harm.
There are so many regrets in this world. Don’t try to make up for the regrets. There is no way to change what has happened. Let your memory be a little lighter, perhaps the best decision.
No matter how appropriate the reason or how reasonable the opportunity is, don’t meet the person who once fell in love and separated again, because this meeting is like a stone thrown into the calm lake of life. One stone stirs up a thousand layers of waves, and it is always difficult to end.
Old close friends, people who have broken up
has a word called "It is hard to turn a broken mirror". It means that once the relationship between people breaks down, it is impossible to return to the past. Human feelings are like mirrors. No matter how much a broken mirror is pieced together, it cannot be restored as before.
The old clear feelings will indeed make people nostalgic for half a lifetime, but if this relationship has encountered a major event and has broken down at that time, please keep it in memory.
The reason why beauty is touching is because it is sincere enough. Once the beauty is broken, it can only be transformed into the past.
Don’t expect the contradiction to be resolved, it’s like we can’t completely flatten the scar. The friendship that has broken is a hole in the heart. Perhaps time can fade the pain at that time, and the wound will also scab and heal, but the traces of the injury cannot completely disappear.
If the old close friends have broken up, don’t try to redeem them after many years. Looking back, the relationship is often unbeatable even the new strangers they have met. The other party may even turn back just to revenge and settle the grievances at that time.
Old close friends who have broken up, it is best not to meet again.
Blood relationship, the person who abandons himself
For most people, family affection is the feelings engraved in their bones. No matter whether they have been together for a long time, as long as they have reached a relationship with blood relationship, an inexplicable deep affection will arise in their hearts.
But not all blood ties are beautiful things. Some blood ties are crueler and colder than wolf. Those who have been abandoned by their relatives since childhood are either useful tools or useless burdens in the other party’s mind.
There are too many people in this world who have been hurt by blood ties. After they gradually became successful in their careers, the so-called family affection came to show their deep affection.
When facing someone who once abandoned you, don’t be moved by the other party’s sweet words. The belated affection is cheaper than grass, not to mention that you can’t judge whether this belated affection is a hypocritical performance with other purpose.
Facing the relatives who once abandoned you, no matter how long they desire in their hearts, don’t let feelings become your weakness. When the hilt of this sharp sword is held in the hands of others, the ending is often passive grief.
False nobles, those who have deceived you
Don’t believe it anymore. Some pitfalls are enough to fall into it once. There is no need to continue to bet on the other party’s uncertainty with your sincerity.
Those who trust you will give you their whole heart and tell you the whole plan. Those who use you will only make a fool of themselves and coax you with sweet words.
Everyone hopes that they can meet noble people on the road of life, but no one truly understands that the so-called "noble people" can only be themselves. Those who express their desire to support you usually have their own conditions or purposes. The best result is that you will be mutually beneficial to each other, but most of the situations in reality are deceptive use.
Never believe in the "noble people" who have deceived you. Meeting again is just to deceive again. The compensation for the discovery of conscience will hardly appear.
Be a human being, you must understand that those who have helped you have a high probability of helping you again, and those who have hurt you have a high probability of hurting you again.
only cheated once and countless times. Don’t believe that a hypocritical person can change it. It is really difficult to change it.
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Author Profile: Weichen, freelance writer, writing tutor. Normally quiet, occasionally humorous.
I hope to bring you spiritual relaxation through words, and I hope your life will be better after meeting my words.
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