Yesterday, a boy told me that he was playing Didi recently. Through chatting, I finally got the contact information of a young lady. After chatting a few times, there was no further information. This relationship that had not yet begun was strangled in the cradle.
is actually not just him, many people are like this, looking forward to starting a journey of friendship, but they ended without knowing what the problem was, so they always remain single. So how to get to the partner by successfully getting involved?
- First impression
For people who don’t know, the avatar will basically become the first impression others have of you. For example, a man, the first thing he sees is a very beautiful woman, and he will naturally feel good about her. At this time, they will chat very proactively, and over time, they will appreciate each other and then unknowingly "talk about love". You can basically tell what kind of person you are from your avatar. Therefore, you must choose avatar that conforms to the public's aesthetics. After all, this is the stepping stone for two people to start chatting and contacting.
avatar can be movable or static, and selfies from the death angle and photos of the opposite sex are not applicable.
- Personal homepage=step guide
In addition to personal avatar, what everyone pays more attention to is of course the other person's daily life. For example, your profession, height, address, hobbies, zodiac signs and friend intentions will make it easier for others to understand you in a timely manner. Many people understand others, but may not first pass the chat, but through the updates posted by the person, speculate on his personality and his daily life, so that they can better understand the other person. Everyone hopes to see the upward, exquisite and beautiful daily life. Even if it is not exquisite and beautiful, it is OK to be simple and clear.
- Voice chat = Emotional intelligence course
Modern people chatting and communication is equivalent to a test of emotional intelligence. As long as you find the right method, both parties can't stop chatting.
First of all, it is the opening remark, just use the easiest way to start. Expressing your expectations in your own language is a strong demand that can move the other party.
The second thing is to find topics, and get to know each other by throwing questions and answering questions. When encountering questions of interest, you can discuss them in depth, so as to find the common interests of both parties, so that you will not fall into the embarrassing situation of having nothing to talk about. Learn to communicate with others, improve your affinity, and improve your social skills.
So if you haven't found the object yet, why don't you come here to try the above method to see if you can successfully get the object?