When the opposite sex is together, you are interested in the other party, take action to show goodwill to the other party, and show your best side to the other party. Looking forward to impressing the other party, you cannot escape three results?
The best result is to impress the other person and win the other person's heart. The other person is willing to hold hands with you and finally stay with you for the rest of his life.
There are often two kinds of consequences that make you feel bad: the other party dislikes you a little, rejects you directly, and does not give you any chance. Or, the other party does not dislike you at first, and after spending a period of time with you, he feels that you are not worthy of him, and he dislikes you a little, and then proposes to break up with you.
Whether you are disliked at the beginning or despised you after being together for a while, this is a very heartbreaking thing for you. At this time, are you a little unhappy and will you feel angry? In fact, if you are disliked by the opposite sex, the smartest way is not to turn against each other, but to know the "three initiatives". Do you understand all of them?
1. Take the initiative to reflect and recognize your own shortcomings.
The other person is not interested in you and dislikes you from the bottom of his heart. There are two reasons why the other person is too high-minded, too picky, or does not understand you enough, is arbitrary, and does not want to have in-depth contact with you, which makes you feel bored with you.
Also, you may indeed have some shortcomings. The other party happened to discover your shortcomings, which made the other party feel disgusted. The other party disliked you and did not want to have too much contact with you.
At this time, you should reflect on yourself and see if there are some shortcomings. "If there is, change it, encourage it if there is nothing." Only in this way, your love will get better and better.
2. Learn to say goodbye and don’t be disliked again and again.
When two people are together, you value each other, but the other person does not value you, which makes you feel heartbreaking.
However, if you know that you are despised and the other party has no intention of having a close relationship with you, but you are unwilling to face reality and are unwilling to let go, you will often make yourself bored in the end and consume too much of your time and energy.
You try your best to make the other person happy and treat the other person from the bottom of your heart, but the other person looks down on you and finds various reasons to avoid you. Your ignorance will eventually bring some trouble to the other person, and the other person will no longer give you a good face.
If you don’t want to see such a result, you must bravely face the reality, dare to say goodbye to the other party, and don’t be disliked all the time.
3. Improve yourself and make yourself better.
If two people are together, the other party looks down on you and dislikes you. This may be a matter of hurting your self-esteem and may hurt your self-confidence.
At this time, you are depressed and feel sad, which is a very normal emotion.
However, if you turn against each other, get entangled with each other, and care about each other, it will only waste your time and energy, and it is not worth it.
At this time, you should keep a low profile, improve yourself, make yourself excellent, and make yourself more personal and charming. At this time, you will naturally be proud. At the same time, when you excel, you will often attract the attention of other opposite sexes, and finally you will often gain the other person's heart and meet your righteous fate in life.
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