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actually corresponds to the saying that "people are poor don’t ask their parents to be busy." "Water" means that it is hard to harvest water. Since you are married, you are a member of your in-laws. At this time, you have to learn to understand the worldliness and the warmth of human relationships. The reason why people are poor and not begging to be busy is nothing but a fear of causing sister-in-law, The dissatisfaction of younger siblings, or being laughed at by their parents, can also be said to be because of unpredictability. In feudal society, once a woman marries, it is equivalent to "parting ways" based on the original family. Some spineless women usually Will not accept the help of the natal family
Once you understand this, you will be able to understand the meaning of this idiom. This phenomenon is very common in ancient times, and it is still used in some places today, but from another perspective People think it’s not quite right. Although a girl did marry someone else, the feelings between her and her parents cannot be parted. It can’t be said that if you marry someone, you have to completely cut off contact with your parents, right? After being wronged at my husband's house, why not seek help in the first place? Generally speaking, marriage is a happy and sweet thing, so the phrase "people are poor should not go to their natal family" should be discarded.
When you read the second half of the sentence, when wealth does not live in the southeast house, you may find that this seems a bit wrong. I feel that since the 21st century, the demolition and relocation in various parts of our country have been in full swing, turning bungalows into buildings. In the face of such earth-shaking changes, many young people of the new generation will feel confused about "the wealth cannot live in the southeast house". After all, at the moment, many real estates have southeast houses, and the prices of these houses are no better than the north and south. The price of transparency is low. Is it really reasonable to not live in Southeast House? The literal meaning of this sentence is very obvious, that is, after a person has money, he must not live in the east wing when he builds a new house. You should know that most of the houses built by ancient people were quadrangle courtyards. The housing pattern of this kind of house is particularly particular. When it comes to the orientation of the house, people have always followed the principle of sitting north and facing south. The so-called "East Wing House" refers to the house sitting east to west. The reason why you have money to not live in the southeast house
has the following two reasons: one In ancient times, people generally believed that sitting in the north and facing south was an excellent feng shui treasure, so that from the construction of the palace to the residential buildings of ordinary people, they respected this architectural model. They believed that this approach can be used. It brings blessings to their lives and is conducive to their future career. There is also a difference between the main house and the wing room. The main house refers to the largest and brightest house in the north. This is the place where the head of the family lives. There will be penthouses and on both sides of the house, which are generally used to rest or live for children, while the wing rooms are rooms in the three directions of southeast and west, which are generally used for guests or family members. So, But most people living in the east wing are poor people. After all, if you have money, no one is willing to suffer this kind of crime. So there is. The owner of the rich will not live in the southeast house. It can also be said that the rich and the rich cannot live in the Southeast House is a cultural interpretation.
Another reason why you can’t live in an east-to-west house is because the east wing has a very serious phenomenon, especially in the summer, when people stay in the house at two or three in the afternoon, you will know how uncomfortable it will be when you think about it. As a result, this east wing room is known as “cold in winter and hot in summer”. In fact, the east wing and west wing have poor lighting and ventilation. In summer, they are relatively dull and have no ventilation and heat dissipation. Poor daylight and drafts are easy to appear, which can make people feel very cold. As we mentioned earlier, the architectural model of ancient houses was to sit north and face south. Considering that the sun rises from the east and sets from the west, it is not difficult to imagine. Sitting in a house facing south, in winter, you can get more light. In summer,There will be less light that can run into the house, and the house will naturally be very cool. Moreover, in winter, the northwest wind will blow in most parts of our country. Therefore, people conclude that the house faces the north and faces the south. The ground blocks the wind from the north, so I think living in the main house is the best choice. In contrast, the southeast house is different. At that time, people thought that such a living environment was very unfavorable to human health. The same goes for the wing room
Generally speaking, the latter part is a combination of feng shui and geography. However, at the moment, this situation is indeed different. The heating problem is almost impossible to call a problem for contemporary Chinese. But I have to say that there is a certain truth in this whole sentence. It is to warn future generations that to learn to be independent, people must have a rush. If they are not independent and have no rush, they can only live in the southeast room and suffer. If you are independent enough and able to fight hard, you will naturally get rid of the southeast house after you get ahead. I wonder if anyone here has heard the stories before and after the citation in "The Scholars", it is a good illustration In order to understand the attitude of some father-in-laws towards poor son-in-laws in ancient times, Fan Jin’s father-in-law Hu Tufu had a very bad attitude towards Fan Jin, who was still a poor scholar. His daughter would ask the family for help from time to time, which led to Hu Tufu’s treatment of Fan. Jin felt very dissatisfied, often degrading or even trampling on Fan Jin’s dignity. Later, when Fan Jinzhong raised his position, his attitude immediately changed. He also called him a literary and musical star in the sky, and personally gave money to his son-in-law. The former and the latter showed respect. It's disgusting, the above is all the content of this book, remember to support + forward comments, I may not be able to reply, but I will go to see it, and finally, I ask you to like it.
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