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Now is the era of freedom of marriage. Whether it is marriage or divorce, everyone has the right to decide their own life. If the marriage is not satisfactory, women can file for divorce as well. Although there will be all kinds of storms after the divorce, as long as you think clearly, the divorce is not a big deal.
However, divorce still requires courage, after all, there are many problems to face after divorce. If there are no children, divorce will be much simpler and the impact after divorce will be much smaller, but if there are children, the situation will be different.
There are some people who have been unsatisfactory in their marriages, but have never been divorced. They are struggling in their marriages. The root cause is often because of their children. Parents love their children and do not want their children to pay for the failure of their marriage.
For women, children are especially valued. Many women sacrifice themselves for their children. A woman seeks perfection in her marriage, just for her children to have a stable environment and a complete family.
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In fact, if the marriage is really bad, it may not be good for the children if it is barely maintained. Parents quarrel every day, and seeing each other is like seeing an enemy. It would be better to get a divorce. Only in a peaceful and warm environment can children grow up healthily and feel happy.
Women must defend their own happiness, and only when they are happy can they bring happiness to their children. Now that the times have changed, women can start again after divorce, and women don’t have to worry too much.
is not like before, a woman seems to depreciate after divorce. Some women cannot go back to their natal homes, and they have no place to live outside. Divorce means homelessness, so they have to bear the burden of humiliation in marriage. Some women would rather commit suicide than have the courage to file for divorce, because divorce is also a dead end.
Even if the current woman does not have a house, she cannot go back to her natal house, but she can still rent a house. As long as you work hard, as long as you are not afraid of hardship, you will never be dead. A divorced woman can live a wonderful life as well as live again.
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After Miss Xu got married with her husband, her husband was a particularly machismo. Her mother-in-law always rejected Miss Xu, so Miss Xu did not do well in her marriage. Later, Miss Xu had a child, and her husband was eating, drinking and having fun outside, and went home late at night.
When Miss Xu talked about her husband, her husband would get angry, and her in-laws were still protecting her husband. Later, my husband became obsessed with gambling and was so gambled that he lost all his family savings. At that time, Ms. Xu became a full-time mother because her mother-in-law was unwilling to bring children. She had no financial resources.
Full-time mothers want to divorce, and they have more concerns than professional women, so Miss Xu dare not file for divorce. The mother-in-law always said that a woman would follow a chicken when she marries a chicken, and a dog follow a dog when she marries a dog. If Miss Xu gets divorced, a second-married woman with children will not have a man want her, and Miss Xu dare not ask for a divorce.
But when the child was 3 years old, Miss Xu still bravely filed for a divorce, which surprised her mother-in-law. When going through the divorce procedures, the in-laws' family still foolishly thought that Miss Xu would definitely regret it, and it was estimated that it would not take long for her to cry for her remarriage. After the divorce of
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, Miss Xu rented a shop selling fruit with the support of her natal brother-in-law, where the mother and son lived. Ms. Xu and her son have a place to live, and they have financial resources. Ms. Xu can still take care of the children, so her life is settled down. The ex-husband’s family of
is still waiting for Miss Xu to take the children back to beg them to remarry, but two years later, Miss Xu is going to marry a first-married man, which surprised the family of her husband. Next to Miss Xu’s fruit shop is a cigarette hotel. The owner of the shop is the same age as Miss Xu. He talked with a girlfriend of a few years, and then broke up. The owner of the
store took good care of Miss Xu, and the two slowly developed feelings. When he proposed to Miss Xu to marry him, Miss Xu hesitated and felt that she had been married and had another child, but the shop owner didn't care at all, he treated Miss Xu's son as his own. What's more valuable about
is that the owner's parents are also very supportive of this matter. They often go to their son's shop, so they are familiar with Miss Xu. Miss Xu agreed to the shop owner’s proposal, and the two finally got married.
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If a woman wants to remarry after a divorce, with a child, many men’s families used to be very concerned. Therefore, most women can only find men who are also divorced, or widowed men, all with children, so that they do not dislike each other.
But now there are many first-married men and women who are willing to marry second-married women, and they don’t care about women’s children. Of course, the prerequisite is that if a woman is a good woman, she is a good woman who lives in a down-to-earth manner.
Women must work hard at all times to cultivate themselves well enough, where gold will shine. People always like to be with good people. Men and women are the same. Women want to marry a good man when they get married, and men also want to marry a good woman when they get married.
When a woman is good enough, she will have more autonomy in marriage and love issues. If the marriage goes badly, you can bravely file for a divorce. Don’t be inferior after divorce. If you encounter new love, you must accept it bravely. Happiness depends on yourself.
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