On the way to chasing girls, you must have had the experience of trying hard to get to the WeChat of your favorite girls, but you lost the news while chatting, and never contacted you again, right? If
wants to develop further with girls, the premise is that girls are willing to chat with you and actively find you. If a girl never actively finds you, it can only show that you are not attractive enough. So, what can you do to get girls to take the initiative to chat with you?
01.
Show your own value
is chatting with a girl who just met. If you want to attract the attention of the girl, you must show your high value in the first few minutes. Let the girls take the initiative to ask you questions instead of the questions you keep asking girls. This way you can avoid looking for girls' interests all the time. You have to show your high value, let her be interested in you, and let her come to you.
02.
Learn to listen when
is chatting with a girl, don’t always ask questions, don’t open your chat history with her, 90% of the 10 conversations are all kinds of questions you are asking her, this will only Cause her annoyance. Whether it is online chat or dating, after opening a topic, you must listen carefully to the girls' lectures, control the rhythm of the chat, and interact in time.
03.
are good at expressing their emotions
Girls chat with men usually not to find a solution to the problem, but to find someone to talk and communicate. Therefore, whether you are on the Internet or in your life, when you chat with a girl, you should never talk with a serious face, just like a business negotiation. There is joy and happiness, anger, cold talk and enthusiasm. This kind of communication girls will have emotional fluctuations, rather than blindly cater to her.
04.
take the initiative to chat with her
take the initiative to chat with him, going around in the same place will only leave you alone feeling the wind and frost.
Usually you can ask how the other person is doing recently. If the other person just replies indifferently, it means that the topic has failed. What you need is to be instigated, not silly.
Marriage has a shelf life, as well as feelings. What you wait for will only bring you a dream that ends without a disease.
05.
pay attention to the fun in the chat process
as long as two people are not mutually exclusive, they will be familiar with each other to a certain extent, but every time you take the initiative to chat with her, make her happy, and you also want the other person to be able to actively find You, the two sides can have better interaction, then you must pay attention to the fun in the chat process. The fun of
is not limited to making girls happy, but to make the chat between you more fun and atmosphere. Girls are also willing to chat with you, and it will be OK to chat late at night. The reluctant end of the dialogue, there is a feeling that the two people are still in the mood, and the two people are deeply involved, and they merge into the other world, and they have good feelings and full of love.
This is the feeling that you don’t have when chatting with someone you don’t like. If the person cannot be dependent on the person in the chat, she may end the chat soon, and even the words will reveal impatience. If you don’t talk well, you may never again. Give you a chance.
When chasing girls, you must master the art of speaking, and you must be accurate, so that you can have endless conversations with girls.
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