author: No. One emotion
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talking about extramarital affairs, people will not help to think of men because most men have extramarital affairs related to the derailment, in addition to the damage along with his wife, there are Infidelity to marriage.
just, have you ever summed up why men betray marriage? After thinking about it, it seems that derailed men do not pursue the so-called happiness, on the contrary, they yearn for an unfettered life, but the attitude of others confines them to marriage.
Of course, there is no shortage of happy marriages in life, but we always encounter some unfortunate families, and most of them are due to men’s infidelity.
As for the reason why men cheated? We might as well learn about these three men.
The relationship between husband and wife has faded, coupled with the temptation of the outside world
Mr. Zhang, 29 years old this year, has been married to his wife for 4 years, but the relationship between each other has long been exhausted.
Talking about the ups and downs along the way, Mr. Zhang also admitted that he has some problems, but more because of the lack of feelings between the husband and wife, especially after the birth of the child, there are basically few opportunities for communication.
Talking about his wife, Mr. Zhang also behaved very plainly, not as sweet as when he was together. At that time, both of them were poor, but love was very sincere. Now that living conditions have improved, cuteness is gone.
The reason why the two people are getting divorced is actually because of Mr. Zhang’s derailment. Although Mr. Zhang is apologetic, he does not regret what he did. After all, a marriage that has lost love has actually become a marriage. The stranded ship becomes useless and meaningless.
From Mr. Zhang’s words, what caught our attention most was the lack of communication between the husband and wife, and the diminishing feelings, which caused him to be unable to resist the temptation of the outside world, so he embarked on an extramarital affair.
Wife is too suspicious, there is no room for privacy in life.
Mr. Li and his wife's marriage started, which was actually envied by many people. The two belonged to the love of childhood sweethearts. In the end, they can enter the palace of marriage and they will naturally get countless people. blessing of.
However, what Mr. Li did not expect was that his wife's suspicions would be so heavy. Mr. Li, who originally thought that he had harvested a happy love, fell into a distressed marriage life.
Actually, Mr. Li can accept the contradictions in marriage, but his wife’s suspicion is hard to accept. Not only does he prevent him from contacting the opposite sex, but even his friends and phone calls have to be deleted. This largely affects Mr. Li's work and life.
Originally, Mr. Li also tried to understand in the past, and he could change the trouble caused by the increased suspicion, and he could not breathe, and there was no privacy in his life. When the pressure reached a certain limit, Mr. Li said I can only rely on outsiders to express my inner emotions.
happened to be a female colleague of Mr. Li’s company who had always liked him, and the two naturally came together. This female colleague understood his experience very well, and the two hit it off. Mr. Li has since embarked on the road of extramarital affairs.
In the end, things will naturally be exposed, but Mr. Li did not show a remorse attitude. On the contrary, he felt that he was relaxed now, and decided to divorce.
The seven-year itch, I have no love for her.
Mr. Chen and his wife have been married for almost seven years, and they are at the end of the "seven-year itch". In fact, as early as the beginning of the seven-year itch, Mr. Chen has already Betrayed his wife and family.
According to Mr. Chen, there are only quarrels and cold wars left between husbands and wives. There is no chance for peace and communication. What's more, the love between the two has already been quarreled. The reason why they did not choose to divorce is For the sake of children.
After every argument, Mr. Chen would slam out the door, and once met his former girlfriend, and she happened to be divorced. This kind of contact, naturally, came together.
At first, Mr. Chen was worried about being noticed by his wife, but as the relationship between husband and wife became more and more difficult to reconcile, so at the end of the "seven-year itch", Mr. Chen directly told his wife about the incident. In fact, his wife also I have already felt it, but I didn’t think about how to face it. Now it’s a thoroughThe bottom of the confession, so the two are also considered peaceful divorce.
From the marriage of Mr. Chen and his wife, we can feel that when the relationship between husband and wife is accompanied by quarrels and cold wars, sooner or later, they will be exhausted, and what greets each other is either betrayal or divorce. Z27z
is written at the end
Actually, the relationship between husband and wife is hard to be influenced by us, but after we manage our business carefully, we still can’t grasp each other’s heart. It is better to confess everything and divorce in a decent way.
If you fall into an extramarital affair, it seems to be a matter of course, but for the lover and family at the moment, it will cause much more harm, so this is obviously not the best choice . You know, paper can't contain fire after all. Instead of letting each other fall into an endless abyss, it is better to choose to separate from the beginning.
Sometimes, it may be a very wise choice to get together and get together between husband and wife.
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