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Letters from readers:
Mu Zili:
Freely fall in love and get married with his ex-wife, and would be too greedy at the moment of marriage, such as: staying up late and playing games; such as: staying up late to play games with friends; such as: ex-wife Let me do some housework, I'm not happy and impatient.
The ex-wife should have been disappointed, so she cruelly divorced me when our child was three years old?
At the time of divorce, the ex-wife went out of the house, and the ex-wife said: 1) Since you want to keep your children with me, I will not fight for real estate with you. You have a house with your children, so that the children will not live too hard 2) The two of us don’t have much savings. The right is the living expenses I leave to my children; 3) A woman who has nothing is still easy to remarry, but a man who has nothing may be difficult to marry and reorganize.
In fact, when I first divorced my ex-wife, I handed over the children to my parents. During that time, I really felt that there was no bondage of marriage. It was so sweet. Of course, about half a year later, I started to miss the nagging of my ex-wife.
Two reasons: There are fewer and fewer friends playing games and getting drunk with me. Their excuse: I want to accompany my wife and children.
Result: I feel lonely.
I once called my ex-wife to see if there is a possibility of remarrying. What my ex-wife reported to me was that she now has a boyfriend. I hope she and I should not contact each other when there is nothing important.
I know that my love for fun, I lost my home and I regret it now.
Mu Zili's postscript:
When we were young, we would be happy or cry because of a candy; or we would be happy or cry because of a toy;
When we were in school, we would be scolded by teachers and parents for poor academic performance; I was reprimanded by teachers and parents for not doing homework.
We will find that at a certain stage, what we care about or like or pursue is really different.
In fact, your marriage to your ex-wife is also the result of your desire for married life when you reach marriageable age. Of course, when you get married, you should take on family responsibilities. However, what you are performing is enjoying the nourishment of love, but you are not willing to assume the responsibilities and obligations that should be in marriage. As a result, your ex-wife was disappointed in you.
In this case, your ex-wife must have quarreled with you countless times, but you are not willing to repent, on the contrary, you feel that your ex-wife is troublesome.
In the end, she can only choose to divorce.
There is a saying like this: Divorce or break up to see character.
I think your ex-wife's character is really good, and did not compete with you for property when you divorced.
Now, since you and your ex-wife can't go back to the past, you need to reflect on yourself and strive not to make similar mistakes after the marriage reorganization.
Reminder: After all, you have children with you. Therefore, when the marriage is reorganized, you need to take the other party's attitude towards your children into consideration.
