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Like is presumptuous, love is restraint, true love seems to be moisturizing and silent, when love reaches the depths, it will not be vigorous and fanfare.
When a man falls in love with a woman, it will never be superficial, but deeply engraved in his heart. There are not too many words, there will be no affectionate sweet words, and some are just thick and subtle.
Many women feel that they cannot understand men, do not know what men are thinking, feel that men are like a vast ocean, sometimes turbulent, sometimes calm, always unpredictable.
However, it is not that men’s minds are hard to guess, but that many times, men hide their minds and bear the pain and difficulties alone.
He excluded women from the cordon, and what he showed in front of women was often only the relaxed side.
seems to conceal and defend behind, what hides is the resentment and affection of the man.
If you carefully feel every detail of getting along, you will find that after being completely emotional, a man is not afraid to show you his "soft underbelly", because he has long been integrated with you.
In fact, most men are very vigilant and will not easily be sincere to a person because they are afraid of being betrayed and hurt.
However, if he treats you as his own person and makes up his mind to go with you for the rest of his life, then all the weaknesses, all the little secrets, all the privacy will no longer be concealed from you.
So women, if you want to know how much a man loves you, you don't have to deliberately do anything to test him, just look at some of the details when he gets along with you.
You have to understand that only when you are completely emotional, will you see the "weakness" of a man.
01. The past of the family
Not everyone is so lucky, born in a harmonious and beautiful family, with considerate parents.
Many men have so many unspeakable pains when they are young, which are deeply rooted in their young hearts and affect their later lives. The influence of the original family of
is often huge, and it will interfere with the shaping of one's confidence and the normal raising of the three views.
is like the psychologist Adler once said: "Fortunate people are healed by childhood all their lives, and unfortunate people are healing their childhood all their lives."
Children who grow up in unhappy families when they are young are important to marriage and family. His desire is not so strong, and his defense against other people is even more serious.
They are often afraid that others will know their past, and they will be filled with embarrassment and humiliation. This is a kind of low self-esteem in the bones, afraid that others will see through and look down upon themselves.
But when he is completely emotional for a person, that kind of feeling is involuntary, and he wants to tell everything to his sweetheart.
I am willing to share the sad things and things that make myself difficult to tell, but I don't want to hide them.
Men are accustomed to hiding all their pain and deceiving others, but only those who really enter the man's heart will have the opportunity to know that men are not as strong as they seem on the surface.
02, lack of money
Men's self-esteem frustration is often a blow from reality.
There are some men who are scarce of money and will be treated with cold eyes much more than expected.
However, many men are accustomed to carrying it on their own, because showing it in front of others is equivalent to a "public execution", and all pride and self-esteem are gone.
don't know that no one has ever met such a man. When they are in trouble, they never speak. They just bear it silently. Even if they can't even eat, they don't ask for help.
Whether it is a friend or a lover, they will not take the initiative to ask for help. Instead, they will not talk about these things, or even repel them. What's more,
will disappear during that period of time, making it impossible to find them. They hide themselves, and leave the most vulnerable and unbearable appearance to themselves, to protect their aching self-esteem.
For men, a lot of confidence and confidence are linked to the economy.
Men can also feel inferior, especially when they are poor in materials. More men areChoose to hide it because you don't think others need to know.
But there are some men who will not deliberately hide, let women see his most vulnerable place.
This is a man’s weakness, which is easily unknown to outsiders. Therefore, when you can see a man’s frustration, you must know that he is expressing his sincerity to you in this way. Sprinkle salt on the wound.
After all, it is not easy for a man to take that step, he has already identified you in his heart.
03. Uncertainty about feelings
In front of women, men sometimes show superiority and behave arrogantly to attract women.
But when he completely falls in love with you, you will become a man’s weakness. In front of you, he will never be strong.
Your mood swings, ups and downs, will affect his mood bit by bit, he will worry about you, and depressed because of you.
in his heart, he often feels uneasy, afraid that you will leave, afraid that you will abandon him. Because of deep love,
is uncertain about feelings, and because of lack of self-confidence, it suffers from loss. After
is completely emotional, a man will let go of all his pride and show love to you tirelessly, not wanting you to leave, not wanting to be alone.
You have become the top priority in his life, self-esteem and pride are not very important, you have already become the first.
The love of a man is so violent, unprepared, but so naked, betting on all self-esteem.
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Women must understand that only after a man is truly emotional, will he show his weakness, so that you can clearly see his shortcomings and shortcomings, his greed and desires.
Don't have no confidence in this man because you see the man's embarrassment and humiliation, and don't feel that he is not worthy of trust because you see his imperfection.
In fact, he has been completely enamoured with you, so he will show his most vulnerable side.
No one is perfect, so he who has no reservations can appear real, right?
cherish him, if it weren't because he couldn't do without you, he would not reveal all his weaknesses, this is his sustenance and trust in you.
