In a relationship, most of the time the person who has the most affection will be hurt the most. Isn’t someone who cares about feelings deserves to be loved? Is it true that people who care about feelings are destined to be lonely? Is it that the one who is more emotional is more likely to be deceived?
Think about it, the answer is that you love too seriously. If you are serious, you lose.
Anyone who is serious will give everything in the face of feelings, heart and soul, wishing to let the other party become all of them, without the slightest reservation. In the past, you might still think about yourself and maintain your good mood every day, but after you love you, you would rather be complacent and stay silent. As long as you can get a smile from the one you love, even if you have cried a hundred times. Come over laughing again, because love can really make you humble.
Your love is so serious. However, you have forgotten that sincerity is the easiest to fail, true love is the easiest to be used, and sincerity is the easiest to be deceived.
When the big dream first wakes up, you will realize that the person you once trusted innocently, and the person you loved stupidly, is the person who hurts yourself the most.
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This is a story of youth!
A boy and a girl had a relationship at the age of 20 years old. This relationship has gone through four years of twists and turns. Although the process was beautiful, the result was not satisfactory.
This boy is a person with a carefree appearance and a very low self-esteem in his heart. This is his first love. He attaches great importance to this love. Although there were many quarrels, incomprehensions, cold wars and other issues at the beginning, he was experiencing separation and combination. Later, with the boy's continuous efforts and progress, this relationship slowly began to enter happiness.
He treats girls very well. The first thing to do when you get up every day is to say good morning to her. No matter how late or anything, he will be good night to the girl as agreed. He will accompany the girl to eat their favorite hot pot and go shopping far away. I can’t see the street. I take her to see the world and travel. I will often surprise her. I will cook brown sugar water for the girl during her menstrual period. I will stay with her when she needs it most, and will tolerate her. Temper, will love what she loves and think what she thinks, this kind of love can be said to be very enviable. But in the end they broke up!
Girls have very different personalities and are very rational. Many times, for enthusiastic boys, they will gradually become numb and become a burden to the passionate boy.
On the day of the breakup, the girl told the boy: You are a good person, suitable for marriage, but I really don’t like you. I also want to convince myself to be with you, but my heart has always resisted and I don’t want to lie. You, I don't want to get married because of marriage, sorry!
This is a good person card, let the boy fully understand that she is too full of love, this time the boy did not retain, because he knew in his heart that this time, it is really over, there is no sign, no retention, some are One person's heartache is left.
To sum up: Although at the beginning of love, you may not know whether he is genuine or fake, but at least after you recognize it, you must understand that she is not worth it at all If you remove your tears, it is not worth torturing yourself and living your life well. Just use the lessons learned in his betrayal to protect yourself and take the next path of love in your life with your heart.
