Why is the divorce rate generally rising in today's society? It is because there are more and more social temptations that need to be faced, men have to face more and more outside temptations, and the phenomenon of extramarital affairs is getting worse.
No matter how good the couple is, they have the idea of divorce at a certain moment. Even the most dedicated men have thoughts about extramarital affairs.
The most unacceptable thing in the relationship is the appearance of a third party. Some men have a derailed heart, but they did not pay attention to action. On the contrary, there are some who cannot resist the temptation and choose extramarital affairs.
The peak period of general men having extramarital affairs is found in the following three periods.
1. When the wife is pregnant and confinement
When the wife is pregnant, her body will be sensitive, her figure will be out of shape, and her career will also undergo some changes. Often at this time, men will be derailed. The supporting actress "Yang Xiaoxue" in
's previous hit drama "The Next Stop Is Happiness" faced this situation. Her husband Shen Fanfan cheated with colleagues in the dance studio during her pregnancy.
first discovered that this was confirmed by her good friend Song Xue at the hotel. After catching the rape, she was still considering whether to tell Xiaoxue, because Xiaoxue was in the stage of pregnancy and should not have too much mood swings. In fact, when
learned the truth, he still chose to be forbearing for a while because the child could not pass the test in his heart and chose to bind her husband's WeChat to sync.
has decided to divorce since reading the chat records between her and Xiaosan. From a psychological point of view, during pregnancy, a wife cannot meet a man's physical needs, and a man with insufficient concentration will choose to cheat.
She is willing to give birth to you because she loves you. If it is not because of which woman she loves to suffer the pain of pregnancy in October, and the man is still cheating at this time, is there any heart?
2. In the seventh year of marriage,
people often say that after seven years of itch, it will last a lifetime. This sentence applies not only to couples, but also to couples.
After seven years of marriage, the passion and freshness of the two will fade. Many people will say that the seven years of marriage will transform from love to family affection. This is also the period when the crisis of couples' lives begins.
Because if this is said to be a transitional period, it will easily lead to the fragmentation of your married life. Every time at this time, a man will ask himself if there is still a relationship between me and her? Can you continue to live?
At this time, men will look for answers from the outside world, looking for such a so-called passion, and compared to the life with you, they will still feel that the outside world is more attractive.
Therefore, the seven-year itch is also a hurdle that must be experienced in married life. It will take a lifetime to pass this hurdle.
3. When a man has a successful career at the age of 40
When a man is 40, it is a stage of successful career and mature in all aspects. A man at this age is the charming uncle in the eyes of a little girl.
If this man has a decent appearance and financial resources allow, then this time will be very easy to have extramarital affairs.
The best age for women is 20-26 years old. Men are more popular as they get older. Forty years old is when the gap between men and women is the most disparate, and married women no longer have the youthful vigor of young girls.
Men will use the feeling of being in love with young girls to regain their youth. People are like this. When they are young they like to mature, but they want to regain the feeling of youth as they grow older. This kind of psychology is called rebellion. psychological.
This is a very reasonable thing. But using extramarital affairs to regain the feeling of youth is harming others and self, not only harming young girls, but also ruining a good married life. Is it worth it?
The above three situations are the peak periods of men having extramarital affairs. As long as these three periods have passed, it will be a lifetime.
