I still remember that about two or three months ago, my friend Qinqin excitedly posted a photo of her and her boyfriend in the circle of friends. Those who didn't know the inside story might think that she was starting a new relationship and that the two of them were having a sweet time.
But in fact, she and this boyfriend have been together for a long time. The reason why it was not made public in the past was because this boyfriend had a wife and children. In order not to affect the man, Qinqin has always cooperated with him and never disclosed their daily life. Except for a few friends around her, she didn't tell anyone else.
We friends are full of question marks in our minds about Qinqin’s choice! She is a little beauty and her job is not bad, so why can she fall in love with a married man. Although the other party has a stable job, he looks pretty good. But it’s not like you would do something so unethical for him!
Qinqin told us at that time that everything she did was because of love. She just likes her boyfriend and can't help but want to be with him. In order to get this happiness, she can accept everything from her boyfriend, even if he has another family. As long as two people love each other deeply when they are together, it will be fine.
Hearing her say this, he was already obsessed. After that, everyone no longer paid attention to her love life. After all, who doesn't want to be scolded by someone who wants to be a bitch? Until, some time ago, Qinqin suddenly announced happily during a gathering with everyone that her boyfriend was officially divorced and they could now be together openly.
divorce? Someone thought of something after hearing this and interrupted. Didn’t that man just give birth to a son and get divorced so soon?
Qinqin answered: Yes! He said he didn't want to wait any longer and that he had already planned to divorce. Unexpectedly, my wife suddenly became pregnant, which delayed her life for more than a year. His wife also took advantage of his children and took away his house and car, forcing him to leave the house. She was really merciless. However, as long as he can stay with me, I don't think any of this matters!
Just like that, Qinqin's relationship moved from underground to above ground. We thought she was benevolent and finally got the love she wanted. Even if you are scorned by others and know someone else's fault, if you overcome it all, you should be able to have a happy ending with your boyfriend!
Unexpectedly, when this man lost everything, his living habits and way of spending money were very different from the past. Maybe Qinqin couldn't feel it at first, but as time went by, she unconsciously discovered that her boyfriend was really too poor now.
said that he wanted to save money to buy a house and a car, but in fact, when his boyfriend’s salary is saved, he doesn’t know that he will have to wait until the Year of the Monkey. The boyfriend's parents are no longer willing to help their son, who wants him to be shameless and lose such a good wife and grandson. They still can't forgive their son and Qinqin!
All of this is getting more and more deviated from Qin Qin's imagination. They can no longer go wherever they want like before! Eat whatever you want! Because they have to consider the future and work hard to plan for life.
Slowly, daily necessities became the main tone of life. It is conceivable that love will gradually fade away. No, I heard Qinqin say two days ago that she was considering breaking up with her boyfriend. This kind of life is not what she wants at all, and she cannot accept a man who has nothing.
eh! Isn't this what you asked for? However, I really want to tell her that you can't be so casual. When you talk about love, you casually destroy other people's families just to satisfy yourself. When you say you don't love me, can you pat your butt and just leave?
As a pair of scumbag men and scumbag women, you should not be entangled with each other for the rest of your life. Only in this way can we let go of more kind and simple people.
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