Preface:
Fifty-five-year-old Aunt Xu said that since she retired, she has officially started her journey of blind date. She is a retired career editor and has a good appearance. Her personal conditions are excellent, but her requirements for her second wife are not high at all.
Aunt Xu only had a simple request for her second wife, but she had been on countless blind dates, but no man agreed to her request, which made her feel very confused and did not understand what the problem was.
Aunt Xu:
I am fifty-five years old this year and completed the retirement procedures at the beginning of the year. Since I retired, I have been thinking about finding a second wife. The reason why I suddenly thought of finding myself a wife is because since I retired, I have been staying at home alone every day. I feel that it is too difficult to pass the time, and I hope to find someone to spend a long time with me.
Although I have been widowed for many years, I never thought about finding a wife before I retired. At that time, I was busy at work all day long. During the day, I spent time with my colleagues in the unit, chatting and laughing, and the time passed quickly.
When I got home from get off work, I was tired. I had dinner and watched TV for a while. I felt sleepy before I knew it. I fell on the bed and fell asleep quickly.
Because I live a fulfilling life, I have never thought of remarrying. I think there is nothing wrong with living alone. However, things have changed dramatically since I retired.
After I retire, I can no longer go to work in my workplace, so naturally there will be no one to chat with me. Even though I have a few good friends, they either have to cook for their husbands or take care of their grandchildren, so it's impossible for them to stay with me.
At this time, I finally realized the hardship of living alone and understood why the elderly still want to find a wife. In order to get rid of a boring life, I started a blind date journey.
I worked as a business editor before retiring, and my monthly pension was more than 6,000 yuan. Because I am not short of money, I never bother to ask men for money. The purpose of me looking for a wife is just for companionship and has nothing to do with money or material things.
Precisely because I never ask men for money or gifts, several single men I have come into contact with are very happy to date me. Among them, there is one man who I am most satisfied with and think he is the best candidate for my second marriage partner.
The man’s surname is Li. He is only one year older than me. He is fifty-six years old and looks very energetic. He was a middle school teacher before he retired. His words were clear and well-reasoned, which made me admire him deeply.
When I first met him, Lao Li, I fell in love with him and asked for his contact information. At first, Lao Li was not too proactive with me. According to the introducer, Lao Li was worried that my personal conditions were too superior and it would be difficult for him to get along with me on an equal footing.
Later, as the time of our relationship extended, he finally slowly accepted me. Especially when I told him that I had no material requirements from him, as long as he was wholeheartedly good to me, I would be satisfied.
After hearing what I said, Lao Li was very happy and proposed to me immediately. He said that his monthly pension is more than 5,000 yuan, and as long as I am willing to marry him, he will never let me live a hard life.
Lao Li’s affectionate confession made me overjoyed. I agreed to his proposal without hesitation, but at the same time, I also put forward my own conditions.
I told Lao Li that after we get married, he must hand over his family's belongings to my management. Only in this way can I see his sincerity and sincerity, feel like I am a real hostess, and we can be like a real family.
I never thought about taking Lao Li's money as my own, I just wanted to gain Lao Wang's respect. In my mind, the most direct way for a man to respect a woman is to let her manage his money.
I originally thought that I had explained it quite clearly, and Lao Li would definitely understand what I was doing and would readily agree to hand over the money to me for management.
Unexpectedly, after listening to what I said, he rejected me without hesitation. He told me with great determination that he would never let me manage his money in his life. He can pay for all my living expenses, but I have no control over his finances.
Lao Li's firm eyes made me understand that he must have misunderstood me and regarded me as a woman who specializes in defrauding men of their money. I quickly explained to Lao Li and told him my inner thoughts without reservation.
No matter how I explain it, Lao Li just doesn’t believe it. He didn't have the patience to listen to what I had to say, so he turned around and left in a hurry. Before leaving, he undoubtedly broke up with me.
Although Lao Li rejected me, I didn't feel sad or sad at all. On the contrary, I think that Lao Li misjudged me and it was the biggest loss in his life, because in today's society, there are really not many women like me who don't care about men's money.
Not long after, through the help of friends, I got close to the divorced Lao Wang again. Although Lao Wang's personal conditions are not as good as Lao Li's, his warm and cheerful character still deeply moved me.
Lao Wang’s family conditions are very special. The reason why he divorced his wife is because he has a paralyzed mother. Lao Wang's mother has been paralyzed in bed for three years. She has been living in Lao Wang's home and being taken care of by Lao Wang.
Lao Wang's wife disliked Lao Wang's mother who was paralyzed in bed. She thought it was unlucky for her to lie at home every day. She also didn't like to take care of her mother with Lao Wang.
Every time Lao Wang asked her to help, she would be extremely impatient. Because of this incident, they kept quarreling. In anger, Lao Wang went through the divorce procedures with his wife.
Although I knew that Lao Wang had a paralyzed mother, I still fell deeply in love with him. I like the focused look in his eyes when he looks at me, and the happy grin he gives me. Lao Wang's smile is extremely contagious. I am always very happy when I am with Lao Wang.
Putting aside family conditions, Lao Wang is definitely an excellent man. The food he cooked was very delicious, and his house was kept spotless. There was no trace of a paralyzed patient in the house.
What attracts me most about Lao Wang is his masculine temperament. His masculinity fascinates me, and I wish I could marry him immediately and live with him every day.
However, although Lao Wang saw me every day, he never proposed to me, which made me impatient to wait. I didn't want to wait any longer, so I took the initiative to ask Lao Wang if he would marry me.
Lao Wang looked embarrassed. He said that he had always dreamed of marrying me. However, he was worried that I would dislike his mother like his ex-wife, so he could not make up his mind to propose to me.
After listening to Lao Wang’s words, I finally understood the crux of why he didn’t propose to me. I told Lao Wang without hesitation that as long as we get married, his mother will be my mother, and I will never dislike her in my life.
My words made Lao Wang jump up and down with joy. He happily said that as long as I nodded, he could immediately go to the Civil Affairs Bureau with me to go through the marriage procedures. At the same time, he did not forget to ask me what my requirements were. As long as he could fulfill them, he would never let me down.
I told Lao Wang that my request was very simple and he would be able to fulfill it. That is, after we get married, his pension passbook will be handed over to me for management.
I have long heard Lao Wang say that when he divorced his ex-wife, the house was left to him, and he gave all of the family’s hundreds of thousands of yuan in savings to his ex-wife. Precisely because I knew that Lao Wang had no savings, I only asked him to hand over his pension passbook to me for management.
Lao Wang became furious after hearing what I said. He said he never thought that I was such a person. On the surface, I said I didn’t want his money, but in fact, my demands on him were harsher and more excessive than asking for his money.
I told Lao Wang that even if I manage his pension, I am just earmarking his money and I will never embezzle a penny. The reason why I want to manage money is just to feel like I am the master of the house, and I have no intention of embezzling his property.
Lao Wang and Lao Li don’t believe what I said at all. He firmly believed that I was lying to him, saying that the reason why I explained so much was just to deceive him and achieve my own goal of making money.
Lao Wang’s disbelieving attitude makes me feel very ridiculous.He only has a monthly pension of 4,000 yuan, but he suspects that someone with a monthly pension of 6,000 yuan defrauded him. He didn't even think about it. With the little money he had, why should I bother to cheat?
Even though I thought I was wronged, Lao Wang still left me without hesitation and never looked back. After Lao Wang left, I came into contact with several men. Whenever I asked to take charge of the family's money, they all left me without exception.
I don’t understand. I have such good conditions and don’t have high demands on men. Why did they leave me so decisively? Why can't they do the things my ex-husband was able to do?
Conclusion:
A man who is married for the second time, no matter how much he loves his remarried wife, will not give his property to the remarried wife for management. There is only one reason for this, and that is that a man's property will only be left to his children and will never have anything to do with his remarried wife.
When a man remarries a woman, the picture shows the woman's concern and care for the man. Men enjoy women's care and attention, but they are unwilling to let women manage their money. If a woman asks to manage a man's money, it is like taking his life.
A man can pretend to spend a little money on his remarried wife, but if his remarried wife wants to manage his money and shake his foundation, he will quickly turn around and leave. After all, there are many two-legged women in the world. If the money is gone, it will be difficult to make it back.
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