1. It looks glamorous on the surface, but behind it there is huge pressure in life. The elder brother of the family was a drunkard when he was young. In the 1980s, the couple opened a non-staple food store and were considered early and successful entrepreneurs with a household wo

1. It looks glamorous on the surface, but behind it there is huge pressure in life.

Jiamen's elder brother was a drunkard when he was young. In the 1980s, the couple opened a non-staple food restaurant and were considered early and successful entrepreneurs with a household worth ten thousand yuan.

My sister-in-law was in tears. I can only try my best to help, what else can I do! When we separated, we paid 2,000 yuan.

At this time, the sister-in-law had no choice but to take out the reminder form from her pocket. The arrears for bed 119 were 27,000 yuan, the arrears for bed 19 were 33,800 yuan, and the arrears for bed 19 were 56,000 yuan....

Looking closely, I owe a debt almost every four days. I have mixed feelings in my heart. I can understand that the mother and daughter really couldn't think of a way to tell me that they came to Wuhan from their hometown to be hospitalized. is the elder brother in the family after all, so he just opened his mouth if he had any concerns.

My sister-in-law began to complain. Between 2013 and 2014, she lent most of her family's savings to fair-weather friends and never got them back. When something happened, she was really in urgent need of money, so when she got some money, she sent it to the hospital. She was hospitalized in a tertiary hospital in her hometown for nearly two months. Her condition fluctuated and she had to be transferred to Wuhan for treatment. This was her third stroke. She is only 63 years old this year.

Speaking from the bottom of my heart, I am also a mute and cannot explain the pain of eating Coptis chinensis. It is all caused by my restlessness and love for tossing. I started my business in Wuhan University Software Park in Optics Valley in 2012. After 7 years of hard work, my career reached its peak at the end of 2018. People in my hometown think that my life is relatively easy now.

had no idea that since the epidemic in 20 years, our company was still struggling after several restructurings. we had been dormant and never mentioned it to anyone. Now we make a living by teaching in a job and writing articles for self-media.

Hey! Money or life? In front of this multiple-choice question, it seems far away from us, but in fact it happens around us every day.

2. Collapse! I wanted to help from the bottom of my heart, but at the same time I was very confused.

Let’s borrow money. Medical treatment is a bottomless pit. I don’t have any savings on hand at all. Both the old and the young rely on this monthly fixed income.

When I open my eyes all day long, apart from the classroom, I am coding endlessly. I work about 15 hours a day and still cannot make ends meet. I don’t want to borrow it. I feel really sorry... To be honest, in the face of reality, will never be able to return to the innocence of his youth, where he values ​​affection more than anything else.

As adults, worries and pressure slow us down. Illnesses, accidents, and dangers are everywhere. No one can tell when or under what circumstances they will appear in your life. If you don't encounter the hidden dangers of , it will be fine. Once you encounter them, you will have to use money everywhere.

I am single and working hard with my children. I have never had so many worries before. htmlAfter the epidemic in 2012, the company's performance declined, it could not make ends meet, it was insolvent, and my monthly salary could barely support the family... I felt extremely stressed.

Forget it, I don’t have to worry about it so much, so I turned around and told my sister-in-law to wait for me for an hour. An hour later, after struggling for a long time, switching from one card to another, I transferred 10,000 yuan to her via WeChat, hoping to make myself feel better.

There is no standard answer to this kind of problem, and it is impossible to satisfy everyone. The moment I transferred out, it was determined that life in September and October would be even more difficult.

3. No matter what you are going through now, you need to adjust your mentality and keep moving forward. Mentality is the best Feng Shui for you.

In the ten days since I came out of the hospital, I have recalled the unpaid bill for 19 beds from time to time, and always wanted to call to ask about the current situation. Every time I called, my subconscious told me to ask after the National Day. yes! I have done everything I can, so is there any need to worry too much?

After National Day, I received a call from my niece. The whole family tried their best and decided to leave the hospital early and return to their hometown for treatment. I went to the hospital to see my brother off for the last time.

Although my hometown is the second largest city in Hubei, it is more than 300 kilometers away from the provincial capital Wuhan. If something goes wrong, I will not be able to rush back to see him off for the last time.

My elder brother saw me walking into the ward. He was swollen all over and was on a ventilator. As usual, he waved hello to me with a smile on his swollen face. My sister-in-law stood aside and deliberately avoided my brother's gaze. She kept looking at the doctor and not at us.

After ten minutes of pause, the doctor said, "Bed 19, don't be afraid, we need to remove the tube today."

The smile on the brother's face suddenly froze. He looked at the bedside testing equipment and didn't speak for a long time. He used all his strength to pull on his sister-in-law's clothes.

Finally, my sister-in-law spoke "Let's go home for treatment. There is really no way to continue the treatment here. Relatives and friends have borrowed all the things that should be borrowed and should not be borrowed. The debts that should be paid are being paid every day, and they can't come back..."

Conclusion: friends! Life will eventually be full of hardships, and you simply cannot predict what kind of life is waiting for you ahead. Life and death are really big issues, and many people don’t take the initiative to consider them in daily life.

But when we really face the difficulty of refusing, will you be caught off guard? Everyone wants to save lives, but the premise is that you must have sufficient material preparations, money! It is confidence when you need it most. If you have any different views on , please leave a comment in the comment area.