Yu Minhong said: "Luck can never last a lifetime. The only thing that can help you last a lifetime is your personal ability."
Many people will say that the reason why I am not doing well is because I have bad luck and my opportunities have been bumped by others.
In fact, it is not that others are lucky, but that others have the ability to seize opportunities.
If you are at the bottom of your life, cultivate these four abilities and you can reach the top even if you fall to the bottom of your life.
Learning ability
Buffett said: "If a person wants to achieve extraordinary achievements in his life, he is destined to be inseparable from reading and lifelong learning."
Many celebrities have not studied in school for several years, do not have a college diploma, and do not have a good family background.
But they have strong learning ability and eventually achieve brilliant achievements.
Taiwan's famous cartoonist, " Cai Zhizhong" was born in the countryside. He dropped out of school in the second grade of junior high school. He determined to be a cartoonist at the age of nine. When
was in school, he studied comics by himself whenever he had time. As long as there were blank spaces in his books, he would fill them with comics.
After several years of hard study, he became a professional cartoonist at the age of 15.
html is 124 years old. He taught himself animation design and production and entered the animation field. html is 142 years old. He teaches himself English and proposes that the best way to learn is "to learn by applying" rather than "to apply what he has learned". htmlWhen he was 150 years old, he spent 10 years studying physics and mathematics, and published "Eastern Universe", "Song of Time" and "Universe Formula"It took him three months to learn Japanese.
He taught himself bridge , has the top world bridge level, and won the "Asian Cup Champion".
also taught himself animation, Eastern philosophy, Buddhism , Zen, and collection.
These achievements are all due to his strong learning ability and lifelong learning mentality.
Some big names in self-media have strong learning abilities. They have grown up from the beginning.
As the saying goes: "Live until you are old and learn until you are old." Ability is not innate, but is acquired through continuous practice.
If you want your life to get better and better, you must continue to learn and grow.
Sales ability
We often hear the saying "gold always shines."
But if your piece of gold is buried in the soil, even if it shines, it will not be discovered by others.
In reality, there are many buried talents. Although they are talented, they still do nothing in their lives.
" Robert Kiyosaki ", the author of the book " Rich Dad Poor Dad ", was interviewed by a Singaporean reporter. During the interview, the reporter revealed that he wanted to become a best-selling author like him.
Everyone said that her novel was very well written. Robert Kiyosaki suggested that she study sales and then find a job in an advertising company.
She'll learn how to get millions worth of free advertising—a skill she can use to turn her next novel into a bestseller.
and say I'm not the best writer, but a best selling author.
Some of today's outstanding authors publish their articles publicly through the platform, and then are discovered by editors and publish books.
Just imagine, no matter how well your article is written, if you don’t publish it publicly to show your talent, editors will not be able to discover your talent.
We have all heard the "story of Mao Sui's self-recommendation". If Mao Sui did not actively promote himself, he would not be reused.
Taiwan's famous cartoonist "Cai Zhizhong" has had the experience of promoting himself many times in his life.
It is because he took the initiative to fight for it that he seized the opportunities again and again in life and achieved great success.
There are many opportunities in life, and they are all obtained by oneself.
From now on, be a proactive person, be brave enough to promote yourself, and be the gold discovered by others.
Execution ability
I like a saying: "Whether a person has a future can be determined by his execution ability."
Many times, we always think too much and do too little, which leads to a mediocre life.
We always wait until we are ready before taking action. Who knows, in the process of waiting, we miss opportunities and waste time. In the end it was nothing.
I have read this sentence: "When you start taking action, you are 50% successful, and you have surpassed those who only stay in ideas."
We have all read Journey to the West, where Tang Monk went to the West to obtain Buddhist scriptures.
But he still set out alone, and met on the road, Sun Wukong , Zhu Bajie , Sha Monk , White Dragon Horse . With their help, he finally obtained the true scripture.
In many cases, we start running first before the wind blows. We do not wait until the wind blows and then start running.
Only in the process of execution, we will continue to learn and grow, so as to improve ourselves and improve our abilities, and then we can meet noble people.
In reality, many successful people are not smarter than us, but they have strong execution ability and can do what they know and do in harmony.
If you want to cultivate your executive ability, start with small things in life, think of them and do them well, and slowly develop habits to change your life.
Review ability
Napoleon said: "Those who do not seek lessons from failure will have a long road to success."
I have read a sentence: "Don't be like an old scalper, who only lowers his head to pull the cart and does not raise his head to look at the road."
Many times, we work hard all our lives and achieve nothing in the end, but we never stop to think about why?
Why can’t I live a good life even though I work so hard? Is
in the wrong direction, or is it for other reasons?
Then, is there any good way to change the status quo?
It is because of the lack of timely review and always working hard on the wrong path that we lead a mediocre life.
And some accomplished people have the ability to review. On the way forward, they constantly sum up experience and adjust the direction in time, so that their life becomes clearer and clearer.
I often see some big names in self-media doing monthly and annual reviews every month.
Review whether the goal has been achieved this month, what are the shortcomings, and how to improve next.
are all listed one by one. The good places are constantly optimized, and the shortcomings are constantly improved. We strive to make progress every month.
How much better this year is than last year. It is because of their ability to continuously review that they can grow rapidly and achieve extraordinary achievements.
I have also developed the habit of daily review. If you haven't started yet, act now. I believe you will be rewarded in the near future.
Finally
We live in this world of cause and effect. The strength of your ability determines the height of your life.
Only by constantly improving your abilities can you have more choices in life.
likes a saying very much, "Only when you are strong, the world becomes gentle."
and above, let's encourage each other.
