Dating for the elderly is like opening a blind box. They are full of expectations before opening the gift box, but the result is not satisfactory. When you don't have any expectations, you will often get a big surprise, but you may not be able to accept the gift.
Uncle Zhang, 57 years old, has been divorced for many years and is a worker in a car factory with an annual income of 30,000 yuan.
Although this uncle’s financial situation is average, he is a hard-working, reliable and honest man. Daily life is very particular.
Uncle Zhang gets up at 5 o'clock every day to make breakfast for himself. After breakfast, he also cleans the kitchen before going out to work.
Uncle Zhang is not only self-disciplined in life, but also extremely capable. He even decorated a small bathroom in the garage. Uncle Zhang is very proud of his fantasy.
Uncle Zhang is a real person, and his requirements for his partner are also very real. There are no requirements regarding appearance or height. I just want to find an old companion who can live a sincere life and support each other in their later years. The
program team probably found Uncle Zhang to be a reliable man, so they found Sister Sun for him, who has top-notch conditions in all aspects, including appearance and finances.
Aunt Sun is 47 years old, divorced, engaged in psychological counseling, with a monthly income of 10,000 yuan.
Although Aunt Sun is nearly fifty, in terms of mental state and preferences, she looks like a girl in her twenties or thirties. The matchmakers from the
program team were shocked when they saw it. They didn't believe she was 47 years old at all. They just thought she was a girl in her twenties.
Aunt Sun smiled shyly and said thank you, modestly saying that she has a relatively young mentality.
Aunt Sun is not only young, slim, outstanding in looks, and refined in temperament, she is also very cultured.
is undoubtedly a lady who is both beautiful and intelligent. As the saying goes: "A graceful lady. A gentleman is a good man."
Aunt Sun is such a high-quality woman, but there are men who don't cherish her. This probably corresponds to the saying: "What is not available is the most precious."
Aunt Sun said that the reason why she divorced her ex-husband was because her ex-husband was a very self-centered person who usually only cared about being cool outside and didn't care about her or her children. When I get home, I work as a hands-off shopkeeper and never do any housework. They even asked for an AA system of living, with money divided very clearly.
Having neither money nor love, Aunt Sun was disheartened and finally chose to divorce her ex-husband and leave with her daughter.
After experiencing a long-term widowed marriage, Aunt Sun was determined to find a reliable man to spend the rest of her life.
Aunt Sun’s requirements are not too high. First of all, the first thing is that the conduct must be correct. Secondly, it doesn’t necessarily have to be how good the other person is, as long as it’s her type. The important thing is that the person is not stupid, loves her and treats her well.
Based on Aunt Sun’s requirements, the hardworking and family-oriented Uncle Zhang was very qualified, so the program team arranged for the two to meet. After
met, the two felt completely different.
When Uncle Zhang saw the young and beautiful Aunt Sun, he was so shocked that he couldn't move his eyes away from her.
quietly told the matchmaker that Aunt Sun is the white swan. Although he is not a toad, he is really not worthy of her.
Unsurprisingly, Aunt Sun did not like Uncle Zhang. Neither his appearance nor his temperament were her type, and he was completely wrong for her eyes.
But now that we have met, we still need to go through the basic process. The two of them sit down and have a formal blind date.
Although Uncle Zhang is not confident that he can win the heart of a beautiful woman, he still behaves neither humble nor overbearing.
Uncle Zhang proactively began to introduce his situation, trying to impress Aunt Sun with his sincerity and hard work.
However, after learning that Uncle Zhang only had a high school education, Aunt Sun became even more indifferent to Uncle Zhang.
Aunt Sun said that she is not looking for someone with a high degree of education, but someone with a certain level of cultural accomplishment and a common language.
saw that Aunt Sun was dissatisfied with her appearance and academic qualifications. Knowing that Aunt Sun also liked traveling, Uncle Zhang tried to gain favor through her love of traveling.
When it comes to travel, Aunt Sun is indeed interested.
She said that she also loves traveling and often takes her daughter to travel around. I took my daughter to Sanya before, checked in various famous attractions, and stayed in a sea-view villa for 1,400 yuan a night.
Uncle Zhang originally wanted to get closer to Aunt Sun through their only common hobby, but he was frightened by the sea view room priced at 1,400 yuan a night.
Uncle Zhang said that for a family like his, living in a villa worth 1,400 yuan is too exaggerated. He couldn't imagine that it would be absolutely impossible for him to live in it.
After some exchanges, he knew that no matter what aspect, he could not impress Aunt Sun. He was also very self-aware and felt that he was indeed not worthy of her.
Aunt Sun is also a decent person. Even though she did not like Uncle Zhang, she did not show any impatience or contempt from the beginning to the end. She smiled at each other throughout the whole process and even shook hands with Uncle Zhang politely before leaving.
shows that Aunt Sun is not only beautiful on the outside, but also very cultivated on the inside. Although Uncle Zhang's conditions are not outstanding, he is distinguished by his hard work and practicality. He must be a caring and family-oriented man.
Uncle Zhang is different from Aunt Sun in terms of appearance, economic conditions and culture, so it is understandable that the blind date failed.
However, if a person has disadvantages, he must also have advantages.
There is no need to feel inferior because you are not as good as others in some aspects. As the old saying goes: "You can't make friends with people without quirks, because they don't have deep affection; you can't make friends with people without flaws, because they don't have true energy." People who are too perfect are not real. Everyone has shortcomings and shortcomings. If you carry forward your own strengths, your life can still be wonderful.
