Sometimes it does not mean that we men must choose to divorce. If there is a choice, which man is willing to divorce his wife? It is because our men are forced to divorce after they have no choice and have no choice. Just like this thing in the article, it is because this man has no choice and has no choice, so he divorces. Now the ending can only be blamed on women. If this woman hadn’t been too cruel and too much, would she be like this? I hope that through this case, all women can be paid attention. Your husband will not spoil you in this way. Let’s take a look at this matter.
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39-year-old Mr. Wang:
I know that if I get divorced, I may never find a wife again in the future. It is really difficult for a wife now. I have some friends who are about the same age as me. I haven't found a wife yet. Although I am a few years older than others, I haven't found a wife yet in my 30s. This is indeed quite difficult. It is not that my friends have poor conditions, but because their wives are too difficult now, and there are some women who don’t want to be with them.
My friend told me: Your wife is 10,000 times better than those women outside. Do you know why I told you like this? I went on a blind date with a woman a few days ago, and the woman was working in a bar. Then the woman asked me for a bride price of 200,000 yuan. The woman had long known how many exes she had had. I heard that she had lived with others for seven or eight years.
Such a woman actually needs a bride price of 200,000 yuan. Nowadays, women are also talking big. What kind of person are you? Why are you so embarrassed to speak out? However, it is difficult for men to find a wife if there are more men and young men. No matter what, no matter how bad a woman is. In the end, you can find a good man, and this is reality.
Your wife is better than them, why did you divorce your wife? Once you get divorced, you are likely to be like me now, unless you don’t look for a partner, but what should you do if you don’t look for a partner’s child? Don't your child need someone to take care of? Don't you need a wife? Your child is still so young and needs someone to take care of. If anyone will take care of your child after divorce, have you ever thought about the child, and have you ever thought about it?
These problems are very realistic. It is not that I will not divorce you, but because I think your wife is much better than those women. At least your wife will not go out with those men casually. Many women nowadays do not have this kind of behavior. Your wife won’t be like that, so your wife is also pretty good. Although she spends money a little better and does things a little too much, at least your wife won’t be sorry for you.
So, there is no need to make a fuss with your wife, and there is no need to divorce your wife. Live a good life. Your wife is better than many years. You should be content, not divorced your wife. I can say that. If you divorce your wife, you will definitely regret it in the future. I was speechless. No matter how I could do this, I could only choose to divorce and not divorce, so how would I live in the future. Anyway, I think there is nothing wrong with choosing to divorce.
last night my wife called me, and I was still working at work at that time. What's going on? I told my wife that I should not call me when I work overtime at night. I was still having a meeting at that time, but my wife still called me. My wife told me: I'm sorry, I know you're not available, but I have to call you. My brother and my parents are having dinner outside. Now I need you to pay for the bill. You are my husband. If you don’t pay for the bill, you will pay for the bill, right?
And I do this for your own good. If I don’t accompany my parents to have dinner, they will definitely go to trouble you, or they will definitely ask you to accompany them to have dinner.You don’t have time to care about them at all, so I’ll help you accompany them. This is for your own good. Now that the meal has been finished, you need to pay. You should ask for money from both emotion and reason.
At that time, I really didn’t have time, and then I told my wife: Didn’t I give you 2,000 yuan in the morning? Is 2,000 yuan not enough? What do you do and eat outside? Use this 2,000 yuan to pay the bill, and then wait until I get back from get off work and I will give you money. And if there is nothing to do, don’t bother me. I’m having a meeting here.
Hearing me say this, my wife was impatient, and my wife said to me: How can you speak like this? If you give me 2,000 yuan, that is for me, not for me, so you must pay for the money again now. I didn't want to say anything more to my wife, so I just transferred 2,000 yuan to my wife and asked her to pay the bill quickly. If there is nothing wrong, don't bother me.
But my wife told me: Is it 2,000 yuan? So few? We can't get it for 2,000 yuan to eat here. Then my wife was impatient when she said this, and I told my wife: Is 2,000 yuan not enough? Usually I only spend 15 yuan on a meal outside, but I can’t bear to eat or wear. Now I give you 2,000 yuan and what else do you want to eat?
2,000 yuan is enough, or what are you doing and what are you doing for so much money? My wife told me: I didn’t do anything. Didn’t I tell you just now? I’m having dinner with my younger brother and my parents. Now I need 680,000 yuan. You have to pay for this 680,000 yuan. I’ll have to pay for it. I’ll have to eat with them. If you don’t pay for it, who will pay for it? If you don’t have that much money now, you can make a promise and give it to me when you go home, or be your parents. I know that your parents have savings, so you can ask them for money.
68 million is not much. This meal has solved it, and my brother's problem has also solved your problem, and it has also solved my problem. My brother's problem is the problem of getting married. It is impossible to say that I will not let my brother get married, and it is even more impossible to say that I will make trouble with you, and it is impossible to say that you will not help my brother. This meal is already considered cheap and solved the problems of all of us. So you have to pay. You are my husband and we are a family. If you don’t give money, you can’t argue. No 680,000 yuan can be lost.
Only then did I know what happened. No wonder my wife asked me for 680,000 yuan. So that's what happened. I angrily said to my wife: How much does your brother's problem have to do with me? If I weren't with you, I wouldn't have a penny to do with your brother. If you usually choose to call your brother, forget it. Now, will you count it on me for a meal? And is this a problem with a meal?
It’s obvious that your brother wants money. Then you come to me for the money by eating. I don’t care whether it’s like this or not. I wouldn’t give it to me before, and I didn’t sell it for 680,000 yuan. You can do it yourself. I won’t give you this money anyway. If you are angry, if you want to make trouble with me, then make trouble. And now I don’t have time to make trouble with you.
originally thought that my wife would not make trouble with me after saying such heartless words. But my wife said to me: Bold and unruly people, don’t you want to live with me anymore? Don't you even listen to my words now? Don’t bother with what we did. Anyway, it’s just a dinner party. You can give me 680,000 now, and you can’t lose a penny. If you don’t give it, don’t blame me. Although you are my husband, there are girls in my belly. This is something I only know today. If you don’t give it, you may never see me, let alone this child. You also want a boy.
If you can't see me anymore, you may never see this child again. It is also very likely that it is a boy. You can do it yourself. Is it important to be 680,000 yuan or the child is important to me? You can do it yourself. I don't want to force you, and I don't want you to do it. Anyway, the right to choose depends on you. Should you choose to help or choose to pay for 680,000 yuan?
I was speechless. My wife didn't give me a choice. It was obvious that she forced me to choose. How could my wife do this? I told my wife: You are too much. I always turn a blind eye to helping your brother.
Now you just ask me to give the money to your brother and say what it means to pay for me. In fact, I just ask me to give the money to your brother to marry a wife. Is this a matter? If so, don't blame me for being ruthless, because there is no place for me in your heart, and there is only your younger brother in your heart, otherwise I wouldn't threaten me with my children, marriage and family.
Before I finished speaking, my wife interrupted me. My wife said to me angrily: I don’t know what you think. Didn’t I say it clearly just now? You must give this 680,000, not only for me, but also for my brother. Let’s just say that. If you give me money, I will go back. If you don’t give me money, I won’t go back. Do you want me to have this child? If you don’t want me or say you don’t want this child, just tell me directly. There is no need to tell me that you want to choose 680,000.
Although you don’t have 680,000 yuan now, you still have a way to get 680,000 yuan to sell your house, or you are asking your parents or borrowing it with friends. Anyway, you have a way to get 680,000 yuan. If you don’t give you any pressure, you won’t have the motivation to make money. I can only do this. If you want me to go back, pay me for the bill, otherwise I won’t go back.
can’t bear it anymore. My wife took advantage of the matter of paying for the meal. Why is it even threatening me with divorce? What else can I do? Do I want to compromise? Once I compromise, how should I live my life in the future? I will give you 680,000 yuan to eat the meal key today, and it will be even more excessive in the future. What should I do if my wife asks me for 1.68 million in the future?
I didn’t have that much money to sell me. Since this is the case, I don’t think I need to give my wife a chance. I told my wife: As long as you have to do this, I might as well divorce you. It’s better to have a long pain than a short pain. It’s over now. No need to threaten me in the future. I will hang up the phone and go back to the meeting and don’t want to care about this matter. I think there is nothing wrong with doing this. It’s not that I don’t love my wife anymore, nor is it that I don’t want to give it to my wife. It’s just that my wife doesn’t want to look back.
That's why I chose to divorce. My wife was too much. There was no place for me in my hands. In my wife's heart, she only had her younger brother. Otherwise, how could my wife do this? So I think there is nothing wrong with choosing divorce. What would you do if it were you? If it were you, would you choose to divorce?
Conclusion:
If it were me, I would choose to divorce. First, as you said, once this head is opened, it will never end. Today is 680,000, and tomorrow it may be 1.68 or 2.68 million.
If that happens, how should you live your life in the future? No one’s money is easy to make, and it is not easy to make money. So choose to divorce, for yourself and for your family. Doing so is not only responsible for yourself but also for your family and your parents. If you don’t divorce, what is waiting for you in the future will be a tragedy, and waiting for you will be painful. Therefore, choosing to divorce is a very correct thing.
Second, your wife doesn’t love you anymore. If your wife loves you, how could she use her children to threaten you? Not only would she not use her children to threaten you, but she would not use this matter to divorce you. Since this is the case, there is no need to give your wife a chance. If you agree, it will still happen in the future. If that happens, it will be a vicious cycle.
So if you choose to divorce, you have to take back your own. Just drive your wife out. No matter how he is, how he is. Women can't do this. Although they can help your younger brother, they can't do it so much. You will definitely be a tragedy. Don't blame your husband for divorceing you at that time. If you want to blame, blame yourself for being too much. Do you understand?
