Fujian girl, got married and had children when she was in college, got married and married a French designer, and had 3,000 pairs of shoes
Author: Mr. Xiao Han
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When I was a child, I was very envious when I saw that my parents loved me very much. When I grew up, I felt that I should get married early, just like my parents, Ye Wei has grown up, and her parents are still young.
So, after going to college, I talked about a partner. They were 9 years apart. The maturity, stability and sense of responsibility in my boyfriend made Ye Wei feel very warm. Finally, she decided to get married when she reached the legal marriage age. Her parents did not object to me. After all, in my parents' hearts, I always hope that my children will live a happy life and there are not many requirements.
But who would have thought that this seemingly beautiful marriage was broken a few years later. Ye Wei took a year off to have a child. Even though she paid so much, her husband still chose to cheat, which made Ye Wei unable to understand. A woman who knows how to love will eventually be happy. At the age of 27, Ye Wei met a French fashion designer who came to China to study. They fell in love at first sight and soon entered marriage.
The husband knew that Ye Wei likes shoes. In addition to designing it himself, he would also search for shoes suitable for Ye Wei everywhere. In 5 years, Ye Wei had 3,000 pairs of shoes of different styles, a room of 150㎡. It seems that the shoes are placed, but in fact it is the French husband's deep love for Ye Wei.
The following is Ye Wei’s story:
My name is Ye Wei, from Longyan City, Fujian Province, and I am 33 years old this year.
was born in a very happy and loving family since childhood. My parents grew up with childhood sweethearts. They got married at the age of 20 and gave birth to me the next year. My parents did business very early. When they were seventeen or eighteen years old, they followed their grandfather to do business. They were usually very busy. After I was born, I lived with my grandmother. Although I had no worries about food and drink, it was not much different from left-behind children.
My grandparents' house and grandparents' house are neighbors, less than fifty meters away. However, grandpa has a bad temper and I have been afraid of him since I was a child. Even if I live very close, I usually dare not go to my grandpa's house.
Of course, my grandparents have to take care of my cousin and don’t care about me at all. I could feel very lonely when I was a child.
Maybe it was because my parents were not around for a long time, so I had a little introverted personality since I was a child and didn’t like to talk much. Later, after I was in elementary school, my mother took care of me at home and slowly found that my personality was also becoming cheerful. People are really amazing. Whether they are living or growing up, they need the company of their relatives. If they live in a lonely environment for a long time, emotions will directly affect the formation of their personality, especially when they were children.
After my mother started taking care of me, she raised two dogs and a cat at home. She felt very happy every day. This happy life has always accompanied me until I graduated from high school.
Since my mother came back to take care of me, my father has also come home more frequently. When they were together, they completely ignored my existence and were very loving. When they were in junior high school, they knew ignorantly what love was. They envied their parents' relationship and thought that they would get married early in the future. It would be best to get married as soon as they graduated from college.
Actually, my academic performance has always been very average, and I barely got into a second-tier university. University is a wonderful and beautiful campus. Students from all over the world communicate in the tone and adult ways. After all, in addition to learning knowledge, university is also a stage of transition to adults.
In less than half a year of college, three of the four people in the dormitory were in love. At that time, I felt quite sad. Was it a problem with my appearance or was I too conservative?
But my worries are unnecessary. Once I went shopping alone and met a handsome boy with long flowing hair and fashionable clothes. We just looked at each other in the crowd and fell in love at first sight.
When he walked over slowly, my heart was pounding. When he said "Hello", I was so nervous that I didn't know how to respond. But I was so clumsy and fell in love soon. And my love seems to be more mature than the love of my roommate, and it is completely in the form of life.
At that time, I was only 19 years old, but I still mustered up the courage to say, "Marry me, I want to get married early, I want to be with you for the rest of my life."
This sentence may not be a surprise for a man who has only been talking for two or three months, but it may be more like a shock.
He didn't react for a long time, and then he asked nervously: "Are you saying true?"
When I nodded and responded, he was as happy as a child. We agreed to get married after my 20th birthday, not have a bride price, nor do we need a house, we only need love.
He knew that I like different styles of shoes to meet my needs as much as possible. After all, at that time he was just an ordinary worker and didn't earn much. He still needed help from his parents in daily life. When I was not yet 20 years old, I was 4 months pregnant. I was worried that I would not be able to wear a wedding dress, so I took wedding photos before getting married, feeling that I was the most beautiful bride in the world.
Later we got married and had children. Life was simple and happy. I took a year off for a child because of having children, but at that time I didn’t have time to take care of the children. My mother-in-law was not at all careful when taking care of the children. She either bumped into the conflict or caught a cold frequently. There were conflicts between us. My husband was a complete mother-in-law. I thought my mother-in-law did the right thing, because the child had a poor physical condition...
The consequence of a quarrel was the breakdown of the relationship. With my husband’s cheating, the love I had fantasized about was shattered, and mine happened to graduate from college.
Divorce, go to Beijing to work hard, I have not fought for the custody of the child because I am not able to raise it!
The college best friend said that I was burdened and did nothing but consequences. In fact, I was really naive and a little naive at that time. When I arrived in Beijing, I found a relatively stable job. According to the plan at that time, I should be an English teacher, but the total plan was deviated from reality.
After working in Beijing for half a year, I met a fashion designer from France. In fact, he is already a little famous and just wants to learn Chinese elements. Our acquaintance is very accidental. I still yearn for love, but I also know that foreigners are very open and will not be loyal to marriage, but the French man in front of me is the type I like.
I said, "Take me to live in France and want to experience the lifestyles of different countries."
He spread his hands and said it was no problem. In this case, he quit his job and went to France, and then registered for marriage.
Before, I only yearned for love, but after a short marriage, I also yearned for material life. My husband's family conditions were good, and I also clearly said that I like shoes. We happened to live in a small town in France. The house was very large, more than 1,000 square meters, but the age of the house had a history of more than 400 years.
In the past five years, in addition to the shoes I bought, most of the shoes were gifts given to me by my husband. Sometimes he would design some shoes for me personally. Of course, because of the lessons of the past, I decided not to have children. The French are open-minded in this regard, and my parents-in-law had no objection, but instead felt that I had my own opinions.
Nowadays, life is happy and there is no pressure. Doing what you like is my job.
