Eat endlessly, wear endlessly, and you can't even make a life of poverty. Ordinary families must be careful in their lives, and no matter how rich a family is, they cannot be uncontrollable.
A woman in Shanghai complained that her husband gave her 10,000 yuan of living expenses, and she spent it all in one day. When she asked for it again, her husband was angry and felt very wronged and said she had not spent money randomly.
According to the video posted by the woman, they can see that their family background is average, the house is not spacious, and the interior decoration is very simple, and they are just ordinary families.
There are three people in the family. One of them is in elementary school and the couple both go to work. The husband’s salary is higher. After paying the salary every month, he will transfer part of it to the woman for household use.
It may be because both of them are at work and don’t care about their family. The woman also asked an aunt to help and paid her salary of 2,000 yuan a month.
This time, my husband just paid the salary and transferred 10,000 yuan to the woman, asking her to spend one month.
These money does not include large expenses such as rent and mortgage. In such a metropolis, it is still more than enough to spend it, but the woman spent the money for a month in one day.
Just as my friend wants to receive a gift when he gets married, the woman’s salary has not been paid yet, so she asks her husband for it when she has no money. When my husband found out, he was very angry and thought she was spending money randomly. As a result, the woman felt wronged and thought that all her expenses were a must for life.
The biggest expense details for a woman is that the beauty salon recharges 5,000 yuan and the aunt’s salary is 2,000 yuan.
According to women, everyone loves beauty. It’s no big deal to recharge your own beauty card. Besides, I was just in time to do an activity and get 5,000 yuan for 5,000 yuan, which is very cost-effective.
Also, the aunt’s salary cannot be saved. No matter how young the family is, she needs to ask for help. The salary of 2,000 is already very saving. It is more than that to hire a nanny in the house.
The woman felt that she couldn't understand the incident of her husband being angry. She didn't spend money randomly, nor was she unable to make money, but she didn't earn much, and she had not yet received the money.
I work hard, do housework, and take care of my children every day. I have saved money and I will never buy things that are not necessary.
It is very special to spend 10,000 yuan a day. All expenses are necessary. My husband was angry and felt very wronged.
video was posted online, which immediately caused heated discussion among netizens
Some netizens commented that if the family background is good, it is understandable to spend it like this, but if the family conditions are average, it would be really terrifying to spend it like this.
Some netizens also commented that five thousand beauty money can be saved, but it is not a wealthy family.
There are also netizens who commented that giving 5,000 is not enough to spend, and they have to ask their husband for it. When the husband is angry, he will feel that he is incompetent and will make her suffer.
Author's opinion
Family needs two people to run together, some people make money, and some people take care of money. If a wife is in charge of the financial power of the family, she must plan the family's expenses well. She cannot spend as much as she earns, let alone spend more than she spends.
When the family background is average, some expenses can be saved. For example, does the cost of beauty have to cost so much? Can't you find a cheaper alternative?
A month of living expenses cost her a day. Who wouldn’t be angry? She felt wronged first, and she was really ignorant. What she thinks is that living a frugal life is just saving small money and spending big money, and what she should save is not at all.
consumption level should be proportional to your income level and should not be blindly compared.
