Those who are not capable have the bigger the temper, and a little thing can make him angry, but when he really meets those powerful people, he becomes like a good old man again.
There are many people like this in marriage. When dealing with people close to them, they are particularly fierce and violent, and when they get along with outsiders, they become particularly kind again.
In fact, the closer people are, the more they should be treated well. Many people whisper to the people they are close to, and they are really trying to please people outside.
The husband who is addicted to playing games
When the Internet was just emerging, playing games or even computers was a heinous thing in the eyes of parents.
Now everyone is gradually improving their views on the Internet and accepts playing games. It is an entertainment method to spend your spare time and relieve fatigue.
But you can relax when playing games, but don’t be addicted to games, especially as an adult, you should take on your own responsibilities, rather than doing nothing every day and immerse yourself in the virtual world.
Recently, a netizen shared his experience. He had a good relationship with his husband at the beginning and thought that his husband was a reliable person. He married his husband despite his parents' opposition.
As a result, my husband didn't go out to work after he lost his job last year. just stayed at home to play games every day. At first, I felt that it was nothing to relax for my husband, but gradually I felt something was wrong.
Kick the broken ribs with one kick
Seeing that the husband doesn’t care about anything every day, he only knows that playing games at home, and his wife will definitely not be able to watch it anymore, and the two are not single anymore, and the elderly with children need to support them.
It’s okay for parents to say that they still have some money in their pockets, and they don’t need to take care of anything, but it’s impossible for the two children to ignore them.
It is obviously impossible to support this family by relying on oneself to do odd jobs alone, and the husband needs to stand up and support this family again.
When you are in a good mood, you can actually understand your husband. You will slowly wake up when you wait for your husband to rest. However, sometimes you will be filled with troubles and you will definitely be able to complain and mutter.
After a long time, the conflict is naturally about to break out. One day, when the husband was playing a game, the wife was plagued by trivial matters, and the annoyed wife ran to her husband to talk. As a result, the husband thought that his wife was quarreling and kicked his wife's ribs and .
The attitude of my mother's family is heartbreaking
In fact, I didn't know at first that my ribs were kicked, but I just felt it hurt very much. After the husband kicked it, he continued to play games, regardless of his wife's life or death.
The family was short of money recently, and the woman wanted to save some money. Later, it felt really painful, so she called 120 and found that her ribs were broken when she checked.
The parents of both sides must know that the matter is so big. However, what surprised the woman was that although both parents blamed her husband, they were just accusations.
The woman's parents even took the initiative to enlighten their daughter. hoped that she would take a step back and not make things bigger, and not call the police. The couple believed that harmony was the most important, etc. Anyway, they were just trying to persuade them to be peaceful but not to leave.
I thought I was kicked and injured by my husband, and my parents should give me some comfort and support. There is indeed some comfort, but my parents' attitude is very disappointing.
As a man, you should support a family. Sometimes life is ups and downs. A person temporarily loses his job, which does not mean that the person fails.
As long as you don’t give up and dare to try, you still have a chance to turn things around. Even if you are sometimes hit, it is understandable that you are decadent at home for a period of time. Just clean up your mood and set off again.
But every day I am addicted to games at home, and don’t think about how to start over. Instead, I start to bite my wife at home and even speak ill of my wife.
Because my wife said a few words and disturbed her playing games, she could kick her wife away, even her ribs were broken, which shows how ruthless the man was.
This man has gradually lost his self in this decadence. He has already started to rot from his heart. At this time, the parents of both parties not only did not correct it in time, but instead advised the woman to calm down for the sake of the whole family.
In fact, the more you protect yourself at this time, the more problems you will have in the future. At this time, parents of both parties should stand up and accuse the man.
Still the same thing, it is not scary to lose temporarily in life. What is scary is that some people directly give up their lives.
