The daughter has a congenital disability. As a father, she must be very distressed and takes care of her carefully everywhere. However, by chance, she found that she had no blood relationship with her child. She wasted 5 years and raised a child for others in vain. The man could not accept it and firmly demanded a divorce.
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The incident happened in Pucheng, Shaanxi. Wu, the child's "father" and his mother Sun met through someone else's introduction, and finally got together. After marriage, it is said that the relationship is pretty good, and the family is also living their own little life steadily.
is the bad news that followed, which made Wu really unable to accept :
The first thing is that his daughter was born and was found to have congenital disability . This can be imagined. Any parent would blame himself. Since then, Wu has taken care of his daughter more carefully. Perhaps, he wants to make up for his debts to his daughter in this way.
The second item is the fuse that led to Wu's firm request for divorce . In fact, since the birth of the child, Wu has been confused about the child's congenital disability. After all, he and his wife are very healthy and have no genetic diseases. How could he give birth to an unhealthy child?
However, the honest Wu attributed the reason to his own misfortune, and out of trust in his wife, he did not study this matter in depth. At this time, he never thought that the child was not his.
Later, when he was taking blood tests for his daughter, he found that his daughter's blood type did not match him, which was obviously unreasonable.
In the end, Wu finally couldn't help but feel curious and didn't want to live in doubts all the time, so he took his daughter to do paternity test . When he knew that, he actually didn't believe that his wife would be sorry for him.
But the identification result will not lie. My daughter really has no blood relationship with me. In other words, she is not her daughter's father and her wife betrayed him.
Wu, who knew the truth, could not accept this fact, so he demanded a divorce from his wife Sun, and sued the court, demanding compensation of 100,000 yuan in losses and 50,000 yuan in mental losses.
During the negotiation process of divorce, his wife Sun refused and said that she and her husband had lived with her for many years and still had feelings for each other, so she did not want to divorce.
According to the understanding, the girl's biological father is also paralyzed, so he does not have the ability to raise his daughter. After knowing that he really wanted to, Wu drove Sun out of the house, but Sun's family also refused to take his daughter in. Now Sun can only rent a house outside with his daughter.
After Wu knew Sun's situation, out of sympathy, Sun would have to take on the responsibility of raising his daughter in the future, so Wu voluntarily gave up all compensation, with only one only requirement, that is divorce.
I have a few more thoughts on this matter: Should
be divorced?
is reasonable and should be divorced. I think no one can accept his wife's sentence on him, and the child he has worked hard to raise for 5 years is someone else's, and he has nothing to do with him. No matter whether his wife's cheating is before or after marriage, he should not be forgiven.
Just imagine, the person next to you has such a big secret hidden in his heart, but he can live with you as if nothing happened. Who wouldn’t be afraid or worried? Who knows what else will happen when living with such a person? Sun's attitude is weird enough. After being discovered, he was embarrassed to say that he didn't want to divorce. Does she really think this is nothing, but her husband made a big fuss? If she really thinks that, I think she may have some problems with her three views.
In my opinion, the reason why she didn't want to divorce was actually because she was unable to raise her daughter. Her daughter was born with disabilities and was difficult to take care of. Her parents also turned herself out. Moreover, the child's biological father was still disabled and could not help, so in the end she could only rely on herself.
So she doesn't want to divorce. It is very likely that she is not thinking about the couple's relationship for so many years, but she doesn't want to let go and wants the other party to continue to help her raise her children. But is this reality?
No matter who encounters this, he must divorce. I think for marriage and family, you can be poor and quarrel, but you can't betrayal. Loyalty is the bottom line of marriage and cannot be overcome at all.
Would Mr. Wu continue to raise his children? After all, he raised him
5-year-old child is not his own child, but he has been raised for 5 years. Kittens and puppies still have feelings, let alone humans. So some people will say that even if they divorce, they cannot ignore the children. She is already pitiful enough.
has feelings for the child, I believe it is certain, but I think these are two different things. If the child is adopted by himself, I think there is no problem with him. In fact, many people live a good life after adopting the child. Parents regard their children as their own descendants. When the child grows up, they will support the elderly and have a harmonious family. There are many such examples.
But the difference between this is that Wu raised his so-called "daughter" under the premise of being concealed or even being deceived. The nature of the matter is completely different, especially the anger he had after knowing the truth. What's more, in the values of most people, raising a wife and children born to others is also very stressful, and it is difficult to raise his head and be a human being in the future. Everyone will say it, but if such a thing happens to you, can you still ignore the eyes of others like this?
After Wu learned that Sun had difficulty raising his child alone, he had given up all compensation. Even if he had done his best to , it can be seen that Wu has feelings for this daughter, which also shows that he is indeed an honest person.
So don’t use the morality you think to kidnap others. As the saying goes, don’t do to others what you don’t want others to . How Wu chooses is his right. He can ignore a daughter who has nothing to do to him. This is his right. And I believe that Wu is a good person. Even if he doesn’t raise him, it doesn’t mean he won’t help. However, no matter what, no one can kidnap him for any reason.
The most innocent thing is that the child
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After this incident, some people sympathized with Wu's experience and became a father, while others accused Sun of him, and they couldn't understand what she was thinking, a good family, why did she cheat on a paralyzed man. Many people even analyzed that cheating should be before paralyzed.
No matter what happens, this should not be our focus. In fact, in this matter, the most innocent one is the child. She is not wrong, but she has to bear the worst result. Her father is gone, her home cannot live, and her grandmother's house is not allowed to enter. She seems to have been abandoned by the whole world. The key is that she has congenital disability. A 5-year-old child should not be treated like this.
A child can have memories from the age of 3, and the girl is already 5 years old. Although she may not understand what happened, she may simply think that her father doesn't want her anymore, which is too cruel to her, and it will have a particularly great impact on her future growth and mentality.
written at the end
I want to say that this family of three losers in the end, and no one can live a happy life in the future. Wu is innocent, Sun is sad, and the girl is pitiful.
A good family is apart. It’s okay for adults to say that they don’t know how difficult the little girl’s future journey will be. Therefore, I still want to say that we must be loyal to our family and be responsible for our life.
