saw a data online: "The probability of people meeting each other and then having a good impression of each other is about 0.5%.
In the vast sea of people, in the years, two people just meet and fall in love with each other. How much fate does it take to achieve this?
What's more, even if you meet each other, develop a good impression, and then successfully become lovers.
But your love process, getting along with each other, and whether your living habits are in line, are not certain.
But it is certain that when the other party likes you, it will be expressed through various behaviors and details.
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The more you like you, the more you "cared about you"
The other party likes you, the most obvious behavior is: care about you and follow you.
For example:
The more the other party cares about you, the faster the speed of replying to your message.
people who always reply to your message in seconds may not necessarily like you, but they must care enough;
And those who don’t care about you and don’t have you in their hearts will not reply to you immediately even if they see your message.
As for those who do not reply to your message, they do not treat you as a friend, and their attitude says it all.
How much a person likes you is "directly proportional" to the speed of replying to your message.
The more you like you, the faster you will reply to your message.
Not only that, you often chat until very late, and even if you chat for a few hours a day, you won’t feel tired at all.
You have many topics and have a strong desire to share with each other.
And the more people don’t like you, the slower they will reply to your message.
For example:
The other party often responds to your message for several hours, or does not reply to your message at all.
More than once received messages from readers:
"Why do people I like always don't reply to my messages?"
This is the answer.
Because I don’t like you, I don’t want to reply to your message.
The emotional subtext of adults: "If you don't reply to your message, it means you don't like you and don't want to continue chatting with you."
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The more you like you, the more you feel sorry for you
There is a concept in psychology called "empathy".
can be understood as: the ability to think from the perspective of others.
But not everyone has this ability.
First, a person needs to be kind enough to feel the dilemma of others;
Second, this person's emotions must be sensitive enough to quickly perceive the emotions of others;
Finally, this person must learn to think from the other person's perspective and be able to consider problems from the other person's perspective.
When the opposite sex gets along, determine whether the other person likes you depends on whether he is willing to " empathize with you" .
For example:
You have been in a low mood recently, have a lot of work pressure, have a lot of life pressure, and have encountered various troubles.
You think, clear has just fallen to the bottom.
At this time, you need comfort, understanding, and someone to accompany you.
And the other party can give you all this.
He feels sorry for you, accompany you, comforts you, provides you with positive emotional value, and takes you out to relax.
This means that he values you enough and likes you enough.
Those who feel sorry for you may not like you, maybe they are sympathizing with you;
But those who like you must feel sorry for you, because this is a signal sent from the subconscious mind.
Because the other party likes you, he regards you as his "his own person" in his heart.
When you feel wronged, he will feel wronged;
When you are sad, he will be even sadder than you;
Only when you are in a good mood can he feel better.
This is the ability to empathize. Only with this ability can the relationship between two people get better and better.
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"Desire to share" is the basis for measuring your relationship
How to judge the relationship between you and the opposite sex, and to what extent?
can be observed from "the desire to share during chat".
If the relationship between you two has been cultivated to a deeper level, then the chatting topics will be more in-depth and frequent.
There is a saying in psychology called "self-exposed".
The higher the self-exposed level, the more you trust, like, and rely on each other.
For example:
You are willing to share your own little secrets, are willing to tell each other about your emotional experiences, are willing to tell each other about their original family, etc. The topic of
is also private, and the favorability and trust are higher.
On the contrary, if you keep your chat and don’t trust each other at all, and just stay in the scope of “life and work”, it means you don’t like it enough.
Do you think the other person shares the weather, mood, food, work or life with you just because of boredom?
of course not.
What he shares with you is not life, but the good feelings and concern between the lines.
After all, sharing desire is the "romance" among adults.
Today’s topic:
Will you “reply to messages in seconds” when facing people you like?
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