As we all know, men are often more rational in relationships, while women are relatively more emotional. It is easy to have a private lifelong relationship with others.
Although life sometimes requires a little impulse, being too impulsive is not a good thing. You should still maintain your own opinions and judgment in your relationship.
You can't just think of the other party's sweet words or some low-cost romantic dramas, thinking that you have found true love, but you are actually playing with your feelings.
Of course, it’s okay to be confused for a while. As long as you can stop the loss in time, you’re afraid that even though you know there is a tiger in the mountain, you will still ignore everything, which will lead to your sinking deeper and deeper. When you are injured and covered in bruises, it will be useless to regret it.
Just got out of the wolf's den and entered the tiger's den?
30-year-old Ms. Zhang gave birth to a pair of twins. This should have been something that made the whole family happy, but the dissipation of her boyfriend cast a cloud on the whole family.
The child was just born, but the child's father started playing and disappeared. People who don't know thought they had done something sorry for others, and the two children also need someone to raise them.
30-year-old Ms. Zhang is actually not the first marriage. She had a failed marriage before, and it was not easy to live with her two children after marriage.
Fortunately, the Internet is now well developed, and I often post some short videos online. has also allowed me to find the joy of life again and meet many people who like me, including my boyfriend.
Because of a failed relationship, I am very cautious about this relationship. I thought I had found true love, but I didn’t expect that the other party suddenly disappeared now.
Beautiful love story
Time was about a year ago. At that time, my boyfriend often sent private messages to himself through the platform, and the two of them gradually became familiar with each other because they often chatted.
From frequent chats online at the beginning to contact in real life, the relationship between the two quickly heated up and eventually developed into a couple.
Of course, this is not a bloody scene between the top brother and the female anchor. In Ms. Wang's opinion, this is a very simple love story.
My boyfriend claimed that he was a truck driver and had never been married. After learning that Ms. Zhang had two children with him after she divorced, her boyfriend also expressed that she didn't mind, which made Ms. Zhang very moved.
The two of them lived together soon after they were confirmed to be in love. It was also a very normal life during the cohabitation period. Ms. Zhang did not find anything unusual about her boyfriend, nor did she have an ambiguous relationship with other women. This made Ms. Wang more determined that her boyfriend was her own support.
The boyfriend who suddenly disappeared
Ms. Zhang Although she is 30 and is divorced and has a child, she looks pretty good, and the online beauty filter is even more unique.
Not long after the two were together, Ms. Zhang became pregnant, and her boyfriend took care of her meticulously. She also opened her mouth to take wedding photos with her.
Everything is telling Ms. Zhang that he will give Ms. Zhang a happy home, which also touched Ms. Zhang very much and swears to treat her boyfriend well.
However, since the child was born, my boyfriend's attitude has taken a sharp turn. Moreover, the marriage certificate he had agreed to have been delaying again and again, looking for various excuses every day, and not giving Ms. Wang living expenses, and the conflicts have increased rapidly.
Ms. Zhang, who was so angry, had a big fight with her boyfriend, but her boyfriend took the opportunity to leave and never came back. She even called her directly to break up, which made Ms. Zhang unacceptable.
True love becomes a third party?
When she heard her boyfriend was about to break up, Ms. Zhang was stunned. She had just experienced a failed marriage and didn't want the second relationship to end before it even started.
And I had two children when I divorced before, and now I have two children. If my boyfriend doesn’t care about me, then I don’t have to raise four children alone.
Even if we really want to break up, our boyfriend will have to pay the child support for the two children. However, when Ms. Zhang said her request, her boyfriend completely started playing and disappeared, and the phone could not be reached directly.
There is no way, Ms. Zhang can only pin her hope on her boyfriend's family, but she was scolded by her boyfriend's mother and angrily accused Ms. Zhang of being a bad person and that her son would not marry such an unclean woman.
The boyfriend's mother later said that her son had been married long ago, and her son and daughter-in-law were very happy. She recognized her daughter-in-law very much. Ms. Zhang was the third party to destroy her family. Even if her son and daughter-in-law divorced, Ms. Zhang would not want to enter.
There is another hidden truth?
Facing everyone's shocked gaze, the mother said that Ms. Zhang was a big liar. It turned out that the family had already known about her son and Ms. Zhang.
In order to protect her son and daughter-in-law's marriage, Ms. Zhang went out to find her when she was 4 months pregnant, hoping that she could quit voluntarily. Her son had a family and the child in her belly was aborted directly.
At that time, Ms. Zhang also promised to do it well and gave Ms. Zhang 43,000 yuan as the cost of Ms. Zhang's miscarriage surgery and postoperative nutritional expenses.
As a result, Ms. Zhang took the money and didn't do anything. Not only did she continue to mess with her son, but she also gave birth to the child. Isn't this going to force the child to ward off the palace?
However, the child was born, and the old mother had no choice but to negotiate with Ms. Zhang again, as long as she cut off contact with her son, and then make an appraisal to prove that the child belongs to her son. She will take the child support fee in the future. After that, the mother took another 5,000 yuan for Ms. Zhang to do paternity tests, and bought some food for the remaining money.
Only then did everyone understand why the man’s mother was so resentful towards Ms. Zhang. She negotiated twice. Ms. Zhang always took money and didn’t do anything, which was really annoying.
What makes the old mother even more angry is that these two children are descendants of their own family. As a result, Ms. Zhang gave up one child without her son’s consent. Is this still a mother?
Ms. Zhang did not deny the matter of collecting money, but she said that the reason why she collected money was not to cheat her, but that she liked her boyfriend very much. It was her boyfriend's decision not to abort the child, and it was her boyfriend's decision that she wanted to divorce and be with her.
As for giving up a child, he was forced to give up. He couldn't keep his boyfriend if he wanted to break up. He had two children, but now he had two more. No matter how much support his boyfriend gave him, he couldn't take care of four children.
Instead of letting your child suffer with him, it is better to give it to others for support. This is also for the benefit of the child, but it is illegal to give birth to privately without legal procedures.
Ms. Zhang did not agree to the statement that her boyfriend's mother asked for an appraisal, and refused to pay the appraisal fee, claiming that her boyfriend would take her child to do a paternity test.
This made the old mother even more convinced that this woman was here to extort money, and she made excuses to force her son and daughter-in-law to divorce. Finally, after everyone's persuasion, Ms. Zhang cried and said that she regretted it. She shouldn't have known that her boyfriend had married and gave birth to a child. She was too stupid and would pass the law to resolve the conflict between the two. If she had known this, why should she have been there?
